Butt Plug opinion

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Registered: 10-05-2004
Butt Plug opinion
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Wed, 08-16-2006 - 3:14pm

Wondering if anyone else has this problem and can offer some advice...

My husband and I love the DP feeling of him penetrating me while I have a butt plug in (the larger the better!), but for some reason, I have problems holding it in when we really get going. Does anyone have any suggestions? Should I just get a bigger one, or is it the shape or brand of the one I'm using? Or is it just something that takes a little more practice LOL!!

Also, if you know of any really good ones, let me know where you got them!

Thanks!

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Registered: 07-20-2006
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 3:28pm
I've done the same with a gf in the past and worn one myself during IC. If you are new to using a butt plug, you need to get used to it, wear it for a bit of time outside of sexual play. It might be that you need a bigger one or one with a larger flared portion. I've not done it, but I've heard of using masking tape to help keep it inserted. Ouch! There are many internet sites to buy them. I'd suggest one of the sites for women.
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Registered: 08-21-2005
Sun, 08-20-2006 - 4:04am
Wife and I have found that wearing a snug fitting g string can help keep a plug in place, and doesn't interfer much with other sex play once you are used to it. For me ( male) we modified one by simply cutting a hole to let my erection free.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Sun, 08-20-2006 - 8:52am
Thats a terrific solution!


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Registered: 03-11-2006
Mon, 08-21-2006 - 7:40am
Try doing it "doggie style" and this way hubby can help keep in where is should be and may be able to use his stomach while thrusting to move it in and out a bit if it slips in and out that freely for you.

 

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Registered: 11-09-2011
Thu, 12-22-2011 - 8:04am

take a look at the different butt plugs.

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Registered: 01-04-2006
Thu, 12-29-2011 - 10:20am

The reply about the base of the plug is correct. Many of the plugs for sale aren't designed to stay in. Check out Brands of Tantrus and Tristan, both companies have plugs with long necks. I think that the plugs with an oval shaped base are more comfortable for prolonged use. The last suggestion is to get ones that are made of silicone. These are very easy to clean and don't have the small pores that ones like the jelly plugs that can become discolored and smell different, read this as not safe to continue using.