choking and female ejaculation

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choking and female ejaculation
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Wed, 10-04-2006 - 10:19pm
my s/o and i have toyed with *choking* while having sex, and twice now, while im out, ive *wet* all over him, but right after had to pee a bunch, so am not convinced it was me relieving my bladder as much as i tend to believe it might be a femaale ejaculation, but how do i tell?

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Registered: 03-28-2004
Fri, 10-06-2006 - 9:19pm

Coming out of lurk mode for few seconds...

I've been doing some reading about this topic. The idea isn't to choke to the point of passing out. The idea (if I understand my reading correctly) is when orgasm starts, both men and women instinctivly hold their breath. It intentisfies the orgasm. With asphixiation the idea is to push the "holding of the breath" slightly longer than usual during orgasm. Thus intensifing the orgasm. The problem is, as with most things, we tend to want more and more thus pushing the into dangerous territory.

Heck, I can even remember when things were better with my wife and I, often her orgasms were so intense that she did pass out (no asphixiation involed)! Sure made me feel like superman!!

Anyway, I think the asphixiation stuff pushes a few other limits as well. It pegs the blood pressure and cause an embolism in those suseptable.

Now here's another question...don't know if this is true or an urban legend. When performaning oral sex, my wife used to love it when I sealed my mouth over her vagina and blew real hard. However, I've heard that can cause an embolism. Anyone know for sure? I've never seen a cause of death as "too much air in the vagina" ;)

Ok, back into lurk mode.

Bis

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 10-06-2006 - 9:30pm

Hi, Bis.

 

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Registered: 10-04-2006
Sun, 10-08-2006 - 5:50pm
thanks for all your responses, i truly do appreciate your thoughts, the choking thing happened purely by accident the first time, and well, has just contintued from there.....i will think about what you have all said and intend to take this up with my pysician too.....im also going to direct my s/o to this thread for a read thru...
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Mon, 10-09-2006 - 4:07pm
peeing vs ejaculation - if you're passed out and can't tell the diference, what does it matter? You're risking your life for a supposed orgasm you're not even awake to enjoy!

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Mon, 10-09-2006 - 4:10pm
FWIW, I do know that breath control can heighten an orgasm, but I really do believe the only safe way to do this is to hold your own breath as you approach orgasm. That way YOU'RE in control of the truly life threatening process.

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Registered: 09-04-2006
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 1:13pm
I have heard it medically that you shouldn't blow into a woman like that. And death has been caused by it when done shortly after childbirth. Goodness knows who wants to be down there that soon afterwards, but whatever.

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