Couples going to stip cubs together?
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| Mon, 07-31-2006 - 12:12pm |
-also posted on Secrets of Married Sex board -
My dh and I are trying to spice things up. After 10 years and 2 kids, things are starting to get boring.
We've started watching porn together and I'm finding that I'm VERY turned on by watching two females together. I'm starting to fantasize about another woman touching me while my dh is going down on me. I would never take this to the next level by inviting another woman into our bed.
HOWEVER, I was thinking that it would be fun to go to a strip club together. Do couples do this? If so, what has been your experience?
I've NEVER been in a strip club and dh only for bachelor parties. But the thought of him watching another woman give me a lap dance, turns me on and I think it will help us that night in bed.
Thanks for your thoughts, suggestions, advice, and experience!

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Hi. Can I join in? You all seem like just the type of people I need to talk to since I live in the sheltered deep South!!!! I can't even say the word "porn" without women looking at me funny. Oh, and I think anal sex is still illegal here.
Anyway, just thinking about you and your dh going to a strip club turns ME on! I think my dh and I are going to try that soon. We've been married 16 years and we have an 8yo boy. We are pretty limited in our choices of clubs here, though. Plus, my dh is a teacher and, well, "Hi Dr. ____. Fancy seeing you here." It's bad enough that the poor guy went to the porn shop and one of his students was working there!
We may travel out of town to Atlanta so we don't get caught....lol!
Good luck and have fun getting those titties squished in your face. Yummy!!!
Sushi.
So, Alexandria is a swinging town, eh? LOL.
Sushi.
Welcome to the board, snickscat.
It is not uncommon for women to join the dh / bf at a strip club. Before going I would enquire what type of club it is and what their rules were. If it is a gentlemen's club women attending with their bf / dh tends to be discourage as it takes away from their 'focus' on the women. Some strip clubs just have strippers and no lap dancers so you may just see strippers.
As for spicing things up. I would say you are walking a very thin rope here. The reason being you may think seeing a woman doing a lap dance for your husband is a turn on but you may find it is something that you cannot emotionally handle. Also seeing your husband eyeing another woman as erotic it may seem could prove to charge your emotions especially if you cannot deal with eye glancing at another woman while you are out with. My recommendation would be to take a slow and not to rush it. If you are the type that has jealousy issues I would recommend thinking about your reactions and how you are preparing to deal with them so that it does not have a negative impact on your relationship.
Hi, Jenn.
Yeah, I think it depends on what
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