Couples going to stip cubs together?

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Registered: 07-31-2006
Couples going to stip cubs together?
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Mon, 07-31-2006 - 12:12pm

-also posted on Secrets of Married Sex board -

My dh and I are trying to spice things up. After 10 years and 2 kids, things are starting to get boring.

We've started watching porn together and I'm finding that I'm VERY turned on by watching two females together. I'm starting to fantasize about another woman touching me while my dh is going down on me. I would never take this to the next level by inviting another woman into our bed.

HOWEVER, I was thinking that it would be fun to go to a strip club together. Do couples do this? If so, what has been your experience?

I've NEVER been in a strip club and dh only for bachelor parties. But the thought of him watching another woman give me a lap dance, turns me on and I think it will help us that night in bed.

Thanks for your thoughts, suggestions, advice, and experience!

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Registered: 11-29-2005
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 6:11pm
It is nice to see a mature lady in this room. I am so happy to talk with you. I am 47 and I have been divorced for quite a few years now. The thing that led to that I believe is pornogrophy. My husband asked me at the time if I wanted to watch one and I said yes. I have to admit that I became sexually aroused at what I saw. It was a heterosexual film with a couple of lesbian scenes. I was surprised to find myself enjoying the whole film. I wish there was more of a story line but that is niether here nor there. I still remember the love making we had that night. It was fantastic. That was the first time that I allowed him in my rear. I will never forget the orgasms..IT WAS FANTASTIC. However, he continued to watch these films more and more and eventually he wanted more than what I could give. When I would masturbate, I would think of other women, however, that was just fantacy. He wanted another woman in our bed and that was not going to happen. A long story short I am single today. When men see those girls in those clubs there is no telling what is going through their minds. A man with an erection is a dangerous thing. As I have said in previous statements I want her husband to make love, not just have sex, with his wife. It is hard to accept the fact that although his penis is in you, his heart and mind is with another.
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Registered: 11-29-2005
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 7:18pm
We are so much alike. Only you have the real thing and I have to take care of it myself. You know what, that is fine with me. I have joined your site and I love it. It is finally nice to see a sight dedicated to the older woman. Please contact me so we can talk.
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Registered: 11-29-2005
Wed, 08-02-2006 - 7:34pm
Thank you.

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