cybering?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2006
cybering?
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Sat, 07-15-2006 - 12:05pm

Hi I just started cybering and really fell into it by accident.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 12:22pm

I'll try to answer the best I can... or at least how I feel about all of it :)

Does your spouse know? Mine is aware that I cyber.

If your spouse doesn't know do you feel guilty? N/A

Do you set rules with the person you cyber? No rules, per se.

Do you talk about the persons SO or not? I think that's a case by case thing. My current partner and I talk about anything and everything that is on our minds. I don't believe anything is off limits with us.

Do you ever get jealous? I had to laugh when I read this question because I usually am the jealous type, but I have not so far gotten jealous with him and I honestly do not see it happening. Everything was laid on the table in the beginning and I have no reason to be jealous... I don't own him.

Does your cybering always lead to talking on the phone or do you keep it to email? It does not always lead to talking on the phone. It has once with my current partner and it was absolutely amazing. It was like all of the other guys I've ever talked with on the phone were just practice for this conversation. It happened a couple of days ago and I'm still glowing from it.

Does your cybering ever get too intense and you need to end it? Not with my current partner... everything is perfect with us together. He's a dream come true.

Do you meet them or just keep it a fantasy? I'm sure it will just be a fantasy.

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Registered: 05-18-2006
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 2:03pm

Does your spouse know? No

If your spouse doesn't know do you feel guilty? No

Do you set rules with the person you cyber? There are limits but, it's not set in stone.

Do you talk abou the persons SO or not? Yes the SO will usually be mentioned.

Do you ever get jealous? No

Does your cybering always lead to talking on the phone or do you keep it to email? Yes it leads to phone.

Does your cybering ever get too intense and you need to end it? It has yes

Do you meet them or just keep it a fantasy? I have met, yes.


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 3:49pm

Hi, secretsiren.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2006
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 6:49pm
Thanks for the input CL.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2006
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 7:32pm
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Edited 7/24/2006 11:28 am ET by cw715
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Registered: 07-15-2006
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 7:41pm
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Edited 7/24/2006 11:27 am ET by cw715
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2006
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 8:39pm

I say fell into it because it isn't something I planned but we talked every day be email about nonsexual things.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2006
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 9:18pm
No, read my post again. My husband has NO idea. He would never approve or be ok with this situation.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 9:26pm

You didn't phrase your questions wrong.

 

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Registered: 07-15-2006
In reply to: hissecretsiren
Sat, 07-15-2006 - 11:18pm
edited............


Edited 7/24/2006 11:26 am ET by cw715

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