Did you have sex on your wedding night?

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Did you have sex on your wedding night?
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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 8:04am

The "Do Weddings Make You Horny" thread made me think of my own wedding night. We were so exhausted but emotionally exhilerated that we decided to take off right after the reception. We drove for hours and realized that this had been a stupid thing to do without a reservation. They didn't have a room for the extra night.

We would up in a family resort in a rooming house sort of set-up. The bathroom was out in the hallway and had to be shared. The racy lingerie didn't get to make a surprise appearance that night.

OH, and the bed situation, TWINS. We used only one, which really wasn't a problem for us. We cuddled and fell asleep. We made up for it the next night.

SO, how about you? Did you have sex on your wedding night?

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:31pm
We did not have sex on our wedding night. We were both too tired and I was upset that night. We made up for it on our honeymoon, though!
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Registered: 01-22-2002
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:57pm
I did...and it was very nice... but iwish we went downstairs after to hook up with friends that wer epartying in the hotel rooms below. We had to get up very early the next day and fly a long ways...would have been nice to hang with the friends
Golf
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Registered: 08-18-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 2:04pm
Yes...sort of! It was 1973...she was a 20 y/o virgin, I was a 23 y/o virgin. Tried on the wedding night and couldn't penetrate her. Second night got a bit further, but there was ALOT of blood. She called her mother to find out if it was normal. Mom assured her it was. Third day (afternoon) BINGO! Let's just say that I wish we had been more experienced.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 3:07pm
We were married 2 years ago 8-13. My second marriage, her first. I had the big Cathloic wedding my first time, she didnt want that. sOoo went got married in Negril Jamaica in a marble Gazebo on a beautiful beach at Sandals..Sandals is couples only, so her parents Grandparents, cousins, sibblings all were staying at Beaches resort two miles away. The wedding guests can only stay for a couple hours, so after the ceremony and reception and pictures were over, we all went back to our room and I carried my bride across the threshold....After 15 minutes or so, her grandmother spoke up(75 years old latin lady)and said ,"well we all should be going so they can get to doing what they are always doing"...lol OMG too funny. So yes we did.
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Registered: 03-11-2006
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 4:32pm
Uh, no. We stayed and partied and then went to our suite upstairs. I nursed the baby and fell asleep doing it and he stayed up and watched porn, but only after he went to the Stag Shop and bought himself expensive underwear! LOL. He's so gonna kill me if he reads this.

 

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Registered: 07-23-2006
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 10:36pm
Jazz - You asked "Why did you wait? Were you too tired or ???" I guess my story is similar to lupinlodger's. Inexperienced - we knew that tab A was supposed to fit into slot B, but not much more. I guess she was not sufficiently aroused to allow for penetration. (This was many, many years ago.)

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