Dirty

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Dirty
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 2:08pm

Ever feel really bad, as in dirty rotten yucky, after a sexual encounter with your SO?

 

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Registered: 03-31-2003
In reply to: cl_jazznpercy
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 2:19pm

Jazz,

Believe it or not I get that way sometimes(and I'm a guy...LOL). During sex I will all of the sudden get the urge to be really raunchy with my DW and I will do things and say things that I would not usually do! I also try and get her to say stuff that she is definatly not inot saying. Sometimes she will doit for me and sometimes she won't. After I usually feel really crappy and sorry I did/made her do it! It was great at the time....but after I feel like I really cheapened it!

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Registered: 09-25-2003
In reply to: cl_jazznpercy
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 2:23pm
This board has really had me think through what my limits would be with my lover. Or at least taught me to think them through before I ever act. I have seen too many moments of regret, and that is the last emotion lovers should ever have.
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Registered: 05-24-2003
In reply to: cl_jazznpercy
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 3:05pm

That happened lots of times in my marriage, but then, I have decided that we're wired differently and it was likely a response to that.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: cl_jazznpercy
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 3:23pm

>>>Sometimes I feel almost an inhibition after something new and

 

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Registered: 12-19-2002
In reply to: cl_jazznpercy
Thu, 07-06-2006 - 4:40pm

"Ever feel really bad, as in dirty rotten yucky, after a sexual encounter with your SO?"


I haven't felt that way ever with him, just him and me.

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Registered: 04-22-2005
In reply to: cl_jazznpercy
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 9:01am
Well, ok, I don't have sessions like the one that you described ever with my husband, but I have had that experience too. Afterwards, I just feel so....well, dirty just like you said. I have even told my husband afterwards, "Gosh I feel so dirty!" and he'll always reply with "Must of been good then." and it usually was. I have often wondered if that goes back to being taught that sex is a dirty, shameful thing? I don't know, but I sure don't like it when I feel like that. I'm glad to know that I'm not alone in it!
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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: cl_jazznpercy
Sat, 07-08-2006 - 8:44am
no, I can't say I do.