Dirty Little Secret

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Registered: 08-23-2006
Dirty Little Secret
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Fri, 11-03-2006 - 8:14am
What is your dirty little sexual secret that your SO doesn't know about and you could never tell him/her. Its not even anything that has to do with them, like cheating, but it could be something you tried (threesome, bondgae) that you've never told them because you don't want them to think you are some kind of pervert or slut.

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Registered: 06-24-2006
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 7:50pm
Just thought I would throw something out there,, actually to see what peoples opinions are, so if sex is sex and cheating is cheating, then where you would classify Cybering?, I am sure alot do it, (yes I admit to being one, but I have no one to account to as I am single), So that in itself is a dirty little secret right?, but, some would say that you are not crossing the line, as for the most that do it dont actually meet. But for the ones that do decide, then thats a whole other issue in itself. So whats everyones thoughts on that?

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 8:14pm

A real Gray Area I suppose.......
Even old Bill Clinton says oral sex was not sex !!!!!
I think it all falls down to how each person wants to view it.....

I think that it can be taken as cheating, but is it a affair? After all it just words an pictures isn't it ???? Nothen physical about it..... It can also be looked at as way to release some pent up sexual energy.... When you have a SO that is not giving you that outlet at home is it wrong to to it this way!!!!! Some say it beats going to a bar and risking exposure to STDs and things like that.... Or maybe having someone in the crowd that knows you and rushes to the phone to call there SO....

This is a very deep and complex issue here, and everyone will have there own opinions about it..... Several months I started a thread about Falling hard for a cyber pal.... That thread went crazy.... So if you are interested go read it...... I learned allot from it and treasured everyones own opinions....

Hdog

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Registered: 06-24-2006
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 9:29pm
Hi HDog: I actually did read it every single responce of that thread, it was an awesome one i might add, but that was back when I was just lurking and didnt feel comfortable enough to post anything. Just so you know, I didnt mean to direct this question at you, it was just you had brought up something I thought we could expand on. I do agree with what you have said, absolutly a touchy subject. But at what point does someone decide to go even further with that connection. I dont think Cybering is only about "sex", I have experienced such great conversations, have laughed at alot, and feel that I am making a difference somehow, I am able to offer advice, and be non judgemental. But it is a "dirty little secret" one that many people dont really like to talk about.

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Registered: 09-21-2004
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 9:41pm
Did you at least scream Oh MY God??????

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Registered: 09-21-2004
Sun, 11-05-2006 - 9:43pm
so everyone we will have a 'cum' free day-LOL!

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Registered: 10-16-2005
Mon, 11-06-2006 - 12:44am
lol no but in my head I kept thinking "i'm going to hell, i'm going to hell, but i'll be going with a smile on my face" :p
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 7:51am
A sorry that doesn't work for me! Cum free PLEASE
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Registered: 10-24-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 10:58am
I almost forgot about this
When I was attending college, they had these dorms with false ceilings, the kind w/ panels that you can lift up. Our room was next to last in a row of "apartments".
The last one, for some reason I can't seem to recall, was leased/rented to a group of
Stewardess from an Airline.
Someone found that by lifting a few of these panels & carefully crawling, there was a pinhole in a shower that they used. Somedays there was a parade of guys coming in, taking a look & leaving. That didn't last very long but it was nice while it lasted.

Wake it, shake it Mony

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Registered: 11-01-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 1:47pm
The only sexual secret that I have is that my bf (or whatever he is to me at the moment?) is not the only guy I've been with. A few weeks ago, I slept with a good friend of mine right after we broke up. If I told him, I think he would die.

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