DW wants me to shave her!!!

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Registered: 01-22-2002
DW wants me to shave her!!!
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Mon, 06-26-2006 - 12:53pm
Hello all,
Haven't been on the board in a while but the board has helped before (never had oral from DW before until someone on this board convinced me to ask her so I finally did...it worked)
Anyway, asked my wife several years ago if she would shave, down there, and she said it was unhealthy to do so, so I never pressed her again (No means no...you know). Well last night, out of the blue, she says she wants to ask me something that I think will be crazy, I press her and she said she wants me to shave her!!! waaaahooooiiiieeeee!! She said she heard good things about it (She just started getting Women's health and I bet there was a comment in there).
After the excitement wore off... or calmed a little... it turned to caution/ fear in making sure it turns out to be a pleasant experience for her. I need tips please. Don't know how far you can go.
I assume I start out with scizzors to make it shorter before using a razor?
I read about the Coochie cream and it seems to make sense?
I read about baby oil or witch hazel to help with possible irritation?
I just want this to be the most positive experience for her.
Thanks in advance,
Golf

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 12:58pm
gosh, are you a little excited???


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Registered: 05-18-2006
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 1:07pm
I have used my husbands electric razor before. Now, I get a brazilian wax done. Have fun!!
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Registered: 01-22-2002
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 1:27pm
I have heard of the brazilian, what was your experience. And how often do you have it done?
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Registered: 05-18-2006
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 1:37pm

My experiences have been terrific!! I go to a salon and the gal is SOOO professional. The first time, she just trimmed me and then waxed. What I didn't expect was how she was going to get the (uhhh, how do I put this delicately) "lower" hairs. I had to almost get in a doggy style position.

At that moment in time? I wished the floor had opened up and swallowed me whole.

I go every 3-4 months and it is $80.00. Worth it in my opinion!

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Registered: 06-23-2006
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 1:47pm
DH has wanted to shave me down there, but I say NO WAY! I generally use a razor but lately it ain't working! So I've switched to my epilator. It has a razor on it too. Works beautifully and I love it.

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 12-19-2002
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 1:50pm

Hi golfdognut,


I'd get a Brazilian wax

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Registered: 03-16-2005
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 2:34pm
Start with a warm bath for her and a glass of wine for her (you wait until you are done with the razor)
After you trim it with a clipper or sizzors then back in the tub to soften again.
Then use hair conditioner on her hairs and you can even shave with that - I have mixed shaving cream with conditioner - it works. Sharp razor and be careful - be aware of the way the hair grows. Use plenty of water and back in the tub and then more conditioner. Make it an event and tell her if she likes it you can do it again. We also use a little neosporin if we have little cuts. Go slow but enjoy! Now the wine and whatever moves you two ;)
Fun
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Registered: 05-24-2006
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 2:38pm

first off take your time...and the first time is seldom "perfect"

you have the steps right. My recommendation is to do it after she showers and take your time. The second, third and fourth times get easier and you will probably do a better job each time.

Mostly enjoy the moment and the experience.

WOOHOOO

PC

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Registered: 07-26-2004
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 6:41pm

A razor blade might not be the way to go. I have tried several times over the years to shave with a razor blade and I always get a red rash no matter what cream or routine I try to devise.

For her, I suggest you get a little electric razor. It won't be a close shave, but it won't irritate her skin afterwards either.

Sugaring or waxing would be the best. My guy likes to help out with that, but we are into pain play.

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Registered: 03-30-2005
Mon, 06-26-2006 - 7:06pm
My DW asked me to do the same thing after years of saying no. After her shower, I had her lay on the bed on a towel, I trimmed her as close as possible with my beard trimmer, then took a warm wash cloth and layed it on her for a couple of minutes, then used a shaving gel, (I think that this makes all the difference), and let it set for a minute, then with a NEW mach 3 turbo razor took my time and shaved her. It came out very well, without any cuts or nicks. NO razor burn or bumps. The shaving gel was on that had aloe in it. Make sure you have a tub of very warm water to rinse the razor with, then again wipe up with the washcloth. My DW wants to try wax in the very near future. Good Luck

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