Dying for MM

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Registered: 04-21-2006
Dying for MM
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 4:55pm
hey ladies I just want to vent about what's going on with me.
I have a BF but have taken on an affair with MM. We haven't had sex yet (I hope) and have exchanged very naughty emails, and even fulled around a little. While at work we text to each other about things we want to do to one another. This has been going on for a few months now.
The problem is that I just want to explode b/c I want him so badly. Our emails are extremely graphic, and it satisfies our desire to express ourselves sexually. And we've kissed and we've touched each other. He smells so good, and his lips are wonderfully plump and soft I just want to bite the s**t out of him (ok not literally). But I just don't know how much of the teasing I can take, b/c I'm literally about to explode. I want him so bad, my whole body desires his. We've talked about going to a hotel, but, b/c of our SO's we haven't gone through with it.
It becomes extremely hard when we see each other b/c all we want to do is rip each other's clothes off and go at it. Damn it! This sux.
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Registered: 08-12-2005
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 7:49am
sounds like my expereince when I first started talking w/my bf. We were talking online and he was away for his job..so I didn't get to see him..I thought I was going to explode. Luckily circumstances brought him home a few weeks earlier than we planned and I was able to fill my desires w/him. It's a good thing. I would have never been able to survive.
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Registered: 04-21-2006
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 1:13pm
It's not the most difficult thing I've been through by far. But it is one that keeps me day dreaming all day long. I guess the fact that we haven't done it, leaves me quite curious, and anxious, and lustful for him. He's so sexy, every time I see him, I just want to explode! :-)
Like right now..I'm dying to send him a text or email but I won't. Trying to hold off. I guess I never thought that a fantasy could be this distracting and powerful ;-)
M-S
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Registered: 09-25-2003
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 1:22pm

It's not really TOS on those other boards...it's really acceptance of the topic of sex. Despite the fact that it is geared towards affairs, it seems the emotional elements are the desired element and not the sexual. Its not as open there on the topic of sex, I guess as it is not as open here on the topic of extramarrital.
Interesting, because what is being discussed here is in essence a Taboo, if we look at the true meaning of the word.

"A ban or an inhibition resulting from social custom or emotional aversion."
"Excluded or forbidden from use, approach, or mention: a taboo subject. "

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Registered: 05-15-2006
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 1:29pm
I have a cyber/phone friend-and I feel about her the way you seem to feel about MM. FYI-My friend and I are both married. I live in the Northeast US; she lives near Tornto (about 8 hours from me by car). We have never met in person.
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Registered: 04-21-2006
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 1:37pm
THANK YOU!!! Finally someone who is not so uptight.
M-S
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Registered: 04-21-2006
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 1:39pm
WOW! You've never met in person yet you feel the same way I do? that's incredible. I don't think I would ever feel like this if I didn't know what they looked like. That's half the attraction. Besides I don't know enough about OM to have any type of feelings for him other than the physical attraction.
very cool, thanks for sharing
M-S
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Registered: 05-15-2006
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 1:48pm

We have sent each other pics (non-nude); hers via e-mail and via snail mail to her work address so we know what the other looks like. With us it's an emotional connection.

BTW-If I disappear for a while it's because I have a chance to call her this afternoon-just to talk (although we had really hot phone sex about 2 weeks ago).

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Registered: 09-25-2003
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 1:55pm
I think the hottest attraction and arousal can come mentally...no, I KNOW it can.
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Registered: 05-15-2006
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 2:03pm
So true when it cums to me and my Canadian.
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Registered: 04-21-2006
In reply to: maggie_sue
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 2:16pm
I think there are 2 types of attraction: mental and physical. both are great though a mental connection is certainly more important (for lack of a better word). physical attractions are just that, and provided you don't get emotionally involved it can be great-just sex-no strings. :-)