Early erotic memories

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Early erotic memories
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Wed, 09-16-2009 - 11:50pm

I was in a discussion on another board and, as they can do, the conversation went off-subject and touched on this amongst other things. One person said that she was disgusted that another poster, a man, had said that he was still aroused by a memory of his that involved him and a girl at a young (underage) age.

I must admit that I have a memory or two from when I was very young and experimenting sexually that are still quite vivid and, frankly, a little bit arousing to me even now. There was nothing inappropriate about the interaction between me and the girl back then. We were both the same age. We were both consenting.

Should I be disturbed that as an adult now I can still be aroused by my own memories of things that happened when I was 12yo?

Should I even be asking this question here on this board? I certainly don't want it turn into an inappropriate discussion. I'm not trying to turn this into a dodgy topic either, but I was curious if this is common or not.




Edited 9/17/2009 12:19 am ET by westridge2001
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Thu, 09-17-2009 - 8:57am

Personally, I see nothing wrong with it. It's a good memory for you. You were both young and underage.



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Thu, 09-17-2009 - 10:37am
Absolutely nothing wrong with reminiscing, some people have really warped minds.

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Thu, 09-17-2009 - 11:14am

I see nothing wrong with it, they're fun, exciting memories of the past.

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Thu, 09-17-2009 - 4:46pm
That poster's reaction to what he said doesn't surprise me any.

LOL! Too true. While I wasn't surprised by her reaction, I did wonder if it was relatively common or not. Not that it's something I regular reminisce over! Due to the underage nature of it, it does have this slightly dodgy feeling to it when you think about it. Maybe the politically correct police have made me question something that's perfectly natural?