Ejaculating into a container...why?

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Ejaculating into a container...why?
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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 11:23am
Ladies, have you ever witnessed/requested your guy shoot into a cup, glass, shot glass or other "collection" container? And what happened to the semen afterwards? Guys, have you ever done this by request or because you felt like doing it as a form of "show-and-tell"? (I'll also be posting a separate discussion for the Fantasy board entitled "Sperm Bank Fantasy". I think you can see the connection.)
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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 2:13pm

"It's an acquired skill to not gag while swallowing when he orgasms in your mouth. It works best to get the penis to the back of the throat and to be swallowing at the right time. Practice makes perfect!"

Maggie, I have to agree with this HD always wanted me to swallow but I have such a gag reflex that it was very hard for me to do but I have been practicing or working on it with DH and I can say this weekend I took his penis to the back of my throat and swallowed most of before I had to stop. First time I was able to do that DH asked me "did you just do what I think you did" it blew is mind ;)

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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 2:58pm

"First time I was able to do that DH asked me "did you just do what I think you did" it blew is mind ;) "


Wooooooooo!!!!

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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 4:48pm
I have a strong gag reflex too.

 


 


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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 6:16pm

I agree that just drinking cum from a glass is only simulating part of the experience. My wife has described the gag reflex she has to overcum even though she knows whats coming, that first spurt of cum hitting the back of her throat is always a shock. Im a very flexible man, in more ways than one. Not so flexible I can can give myself head, but flexible enough that I think, maybe, I could actually give another guy head if my wife asked it of me. Thats a little unlikely however, so how to simulate the whole experience otherwise? Use a turkey baster and squirt it in?

LOL

On another note, have seen some comments about the BDSM side of this and "prostrate milking" with some folks understandably not getting it. In prostrate milking, ejaculation is caused through anal penetration and direct stimulation of the prostrate, ejaculation occurs WITHOUT the pleasure of orgasm. Yes, some people would enjoy the anal penetration alone, but this can be done without it being enjoyable that way either. So the submissive is being milked and refed his semen without receiving physical pleasure himself.... the denial of pleasure being part of being submissive.

Just recently my wife attended a BDSM seminar and witnessed a couple of demonstrations that had her so noticeably pale and faint that her "sponser" at the event took her outside and got her a stiff drink. There are a lot of interesting sexual practices out there that meet some particular needs that most of us might not understand, definitely the prostrate milking is a little out there for me. And Im sure some of the things that interest me( just admitting above Id consider giving head to another guy is out there for most heterosexual men) are out there for others.

And the same activity can engender different response and meaning for different people. My wife feels like she's in control and dominant when giving head( as she says, "think about it, a soft fleshy tissue surronded by sharp enamaled teeth, whose the vulnerable one?") while I'm sure Id feel very submissive in that role.

So this was a great thread, because there are a lot of differentr reasons for this activity...interesting.

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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 6:50pm
I feel very much in control when I'm giving oral sex.

 


 


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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 10:01pm
Prostate milking can be a D/S activity, but not necessarily. Essentially it's massage of the prostate gland via the anus that causes semen to seep out--or run out of the penis, if done vigorously. Because the semen is made mostly from prostatic fluid the "semen" which is "ejaculated" (no spasms, no orgasm) looks like semen but is lacking the thicker fluid from the seminal vesicles. Milking the seminal vesicles is more difficult because they are farther back into the rectum than the prostate (which in most men can be easily reached). The milking sensation, in my opinion, is odd, and pleasurable, especially if a woman is doing it. (I've also done it myself, but it's not the same.) It helps that the penis is also being lightly stroked at the same time. Of course, too much stimulation of the penis will cause a "real" ejaculation, but if the prostate and seminal vesicles have been milked, the orgasm is usually dry. If you're into the intracacies of the male anatomy, this is an interesting and enjoyable activity. At least I think so. But I know that not everyone would agree. Also, part of the game is to collect the milked semen in a container.
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 8:46am
So I take it that thick cum is better for playing with than thin cum? Any observations that you can make from your pulling it apart and so forth?
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 9:43am
Variety!!! I like variety, it stimulates the brain and other organs as well.
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 9:55am
Playing with cum can provide "variety", although I'm sure that that was the question you were answering, was it?
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 1:48pm

You ask about a preference, I said I like variety. I side stepped your question. Likewise I failed to give you my observations about cum. It's something I played with almost mindlessly. Enjoyed the experience while it was happening but didn't take notes.

As I said, it was in my earlier days. But with the right guy I could really get into playing with it again.