Embarassing massage

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-10-2012
Embarassing massage
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Tue, 04-17-2012 - 2:09pm

I recently had a massage done to relieve some stress, and b/c I've never had one before. Leading up to the massage, I could not stop thinking about basically every porn "massage" scene I've ever watched and I found myself becoming aroused just thinking about it. But I didn't want to get to the place and embarrass myself, so I blocked it from my mind. But when the massuse (spelling?) came in, she was a younger, attractive female and my mind began racing again. The massage was great, but after about 5 minutes in to it, I got a rather large erection and could not, for the life of me, make it go down, lol. It wasn't akward at first b/c I was laying on my stomach, but she asked me to roll over and the towel that covered me looked like a giant tent! I was so embarrassed. Thankfully, the girl was nice about it and after I apologized several times, she told me that "this happens more than you think". Nothing "sexual" happened. She was very professional and I left.

Has this happened to anyone else? What did you?

Women, has a male massuse (again with spelling??) ever been aroused while massaging you?

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Registered: 11-18-2011
Tue, 04-17-2012 - 2:59pm
Hey Hawk....a few years back....I would go to the same grocery store and usually the same lady was there and after a year or so...she told me that she was also a licensed massage therapist....she told me $50 for an hour....I was thinking the same thing...she gave me a sheet, she left, i took my clothes off....got on the bed....and she came in and gave me a massage....for an hour....and it HURT!!! BAD! ha ha ha....never again!
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Registered: 04-17-2006
Wed, 04-18-2012 - 12:20pm

I had the same thing happen to me once. She was a bit older than I was. I think she found it amusing. As your therapist says, it happens more than you would think.

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Registered: 08-28-1998
Wed, 04-18-2012 - 2:37pm
I'm 50. I've had probably 20 massage over the last ten years.

While I was concerned that something may come up, it has never happened even when they massage the glutes.

Maybe it's my age. Erections aren't as easy to come by at 50 as they wee 30 years ago.
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Registered: 03-17-2009
Wed, 04-18-2012 - 10:57pm

I only had a male masseuse once that I rememebr.

 


 


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Registered: 04-10-2012
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 8:17am

That's an interesting though Ivy. I guess I was in sort of the same boat, meaning having another women touch/rub on me got my arousal level up way more than I thought. Thanks, I hadn't thought of that.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 9:19am

I'm sure it's a pretty common occurrence, hawk!

I once had a professional waxer tell me a story about how man came in to get his special places completely waxed, front AND back lol, and he got aroused while she was busy ripping all his pubic hair out lol.

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Registered: 04-10-2012
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 9:59am

The thought of waxing that area makes me cringe, lol. But...to each his/her own. But ouch! I have heard of men ejaculating while getting their prostate checked, I'm really nervous about that happening to me, haha. Apparently I worry a lot.

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 10:05am

Don't sweat it, hawkeye.

I have two good friends who are female massage therapists and they say it happens and they received training in how to minimize a client's embarrassment....one was being

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 10:06am

LOL!

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Registered: 04-10-2012
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 10:27am

@cmtasha - True, but with my luck, the doctor will probably have a good looking intern with him for "teaching" purposes, lol

@moonlightnrose - Well I'm glad to hear other people have witnessed this. I don't feel too bad, sort of, haha. And yes it a lot tougher to hide our arousal. This fact made 7th-10th grade very awkward, lol. Especially since erections aren't controllable and were random. For me, they only seemed to occur right before the teacher said, "Can you come up and work this problem on the board?" No thanks, I'll take the zero.

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