first time concern

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Registered: 09-06-2005
first time concern
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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 12:31am

I'm contemplating having anal sex with my current partner however, I'm a little concerned about the whole poop idea. As in, is he going to get poop on his penis during anal sex? is there a way to avoid this?
I think I'd be completely embaressed if this were to happen so it's pretty much a deciding factor for me...

help!

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Registered: 01-02-2001
Fri, 03-10-2006 - 4:42am

Hi Woodstock. You really should talk this issue over with your SO beforehand because it may not be a problem for him. If it continues to be an issue, he can always wear a condom which you should insist on anyway if there is even a remote chance of an STD. Having a BM shortly before engaging in anal sex should limit the problem but it is not guaranteed to. You should expect some staining anyway. I always use a condom for anal sex because I am prone to UTIs and have had anal sex related UTIs twice.

The only other thing you may want to consider is using a small quick plain water enema beforehand go clean out your rectum.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Fri, 03-10-2006 - 10:18am
that's just part of what happens sometimes during anal, and if your guy can't handle it, then anal may not be for you.


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Registered: 02-03-2006
Fri, 03-10-2006 - 3:36pm
That happened to me one time. My now EX BF got so grossed out over the poop on his penis that he would no longer even consider having anal sex with me. I told him what does he expect to happen, look at where he is sticking it. I even had th BM before hand and it did not help.
I would SO discuss this beforehand and make sure that he can handle it. It really does not bother alot of guys, if it did, then we would NEVER know the pleasure of anal sex.
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Registered: 12-24-2005
Fri, 03-10-2006 - 10:47pm

K, it's the Taboo board so I'm gonna be a little crude (that makes no sense, actually). But I had a friend in the Navy back in the day, and he said the Navy guys used to call anal sex 'brown round.' OMG--did I actually just say that?!


(going to corner)

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Sat, 03-11-2006 - 10:40am
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Registered: 03-11-2006
Sat, 03-11-2006 - 10:55am

I love it! I always have a drink or two first though - - - and a lot of foreplay. I think giving oral sex to him first and then using his lubricant to wet my bottom (with my hand) as he use his hands to lube with a lubricant is very satisfying. Visual is always a turn on with me!

propping a pillow under my hips and laying face down lends its way to easy slippery access.

Enjoy!

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Sat, 03-11-2006 - 11:19am
lots of women also find it easier and more enjoyable if they have already had an orgasm. :)


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Registered: 02-03-2006
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 10:30am
I hope you are still in the corner. That was REALLY!!!!! bad :-)...
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Registered: 09-25-2003
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 11:02am
I keep hearing this...and still do believe it very much! Thus, I think I married a woman with too much guy in her. After her O...she is ready for it to be over and sleep. Bummer for a ladies first guy! But I will not give up my internal convictions!
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Registered: 07-26-2004
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 11:28am
It's better if she likes anal sex. If she does, then she will want that some times...just that. I don't feel cheated if we have anal sex and nothing else. It's all sex to me.

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