Fisting info

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fisting info
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Wed, 11-08-2006 - 10:02am

I just ran across this in Dan Savage's column on thevillagevoice.com and thought I would pass it on:

>>>Done correctly—lots of lube, lots of time—fisting won't hurt you. Done incorrectly—too little lube, too little time—and fisting could land you in the hospital, at the morgue, or on the Drudge Report. While there's tons of good info on the Web about vaginal fisting, I urge wannabe fisters to invest in a copy of A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington. <<<

http://villagevoice.com/ (go to the 'people' section)

Who's tried it?


 

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Wed, 11-08-2006 - 9:56pm
I remember what it was now - the guy put a dildo too far up his bum, and he couldn't get it back out.

 


 


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Registered: 06-24-2006
Wed, 11-08-2006 - 11:50pm
You know years ago I was taking care of this boy at the children's hospital, he was bout 13, anyway, he decided to experiment and he managed to put the end of a broom up his butt, well it went very wrong for him, and almost died from his bowel being punctured. I cant understand why people would risk their lives for some short lived fun by inserting objects that are not safe. Gotta wonder.

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Registered: 07-03-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 12:05am
Never done it probably never will. I did stumble across site showing woman getting fisted analy and vaginaly at the same time. That had to hurt!

 


 


 


 


 

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Registered: 09-04-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 7:34am
Not me, and never want to. BF doesn't either. When you spend hours in labour trying to get something bigger than that out of you what on earth makes you think I'd want something almost as big shoved back up again. LOL
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 3:46pm
We enjoy occasional fisting. We've each both given and received, and I can tell you that the feeling of completely filling someone up is only matched by the feeling of being totally and completely filled. Out of this world!

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Registered: 07-24-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 4:43pm

When I was in nursing and was doing rotations in the E.R. there was a teenaged boy who inserted the straightened end of a wire coat hanger into his urethra, and couldn't get it out after he was done. X-rays showed that once it hit the bladder the edge had curled back up somewhat into its original shape. He had to have surgery to have it removed. There was a pretty substantial incision made into the base of the penis itself and the bladder. Poor guy couldn't use his penis for close to a year as far as sexual intercourse was concerned (at least that's what he was told after the surgery)....but something tells me that he wasn't engaging in that too often anyway. He just seemed like a shy, misinformed teenager---too bad he had that happen.

I saw a case as well similar to what NHgal was saying about the *lost* tampon. There was a college student who was admitted with pains in her lower belly and a foul smell/discharge coming from her vagina. Afraid that she might have an std or some other serious infection, she finally decided to come in to the E.R. Upon examination, the doctor found a tampon in this young lady that had been in there for 3 weeks! She said that she had since used other tampons and even had sexual intercourse a couple of times since then. What finally made her decide it was serious was when her friends started complaining of a terrible odor coming from her nether regions. She was admitted and given intravenous antibiotics for two days, but that was just a precaution because other than the foul discharge and pain, she had no other symptoms of TSS (toxic shock syndrome), just a localized infection, whereas as TSS is more systemic. She said she just couldn't understand why she didn't feel the tampon inside, but those newer tampons that are smaller and made to be less intrusive are known for getting *lost*, particuarly with teenagers and younger women who are more likely to use them. They just forget that they are there.

Some gynecologists now tell young women to carry around a pocket-sized calendar during their cycle and to put a check mark in the appropriate date's slot for every tampon they use and what time it was changed, just to keep track and make sure that nothing is left behind---I think this is a great idea, better to be safe than sorry.

Chakra

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Registered: 07-24-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 4:48pm

I forgot to comment about the fisting---I'm not interested in it, neither is my husband, but each to his own. If anyone does try it, I think they should read the book "Hand in the Bush". Although, it doesn't apply to anything I'd do, it gives a nice history and great tips on how to do it safely and with care. In the book, it was also explained that there are different types of fisting, your whole fist doesn't necessarily have to go in an orifice for the act to be called *fisting*.---interesting read anyway even if you don't dig this particular activity.

Chakra

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 8:30pm
I forgot to comment on it too.

 


 


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Registered: 06-24-2006
Thu, 11-09-2006 - 8:36pm
ok so this has nothing to do with fisting, but Jan. I love your new siggy...it looks awesome

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Fri, 11-10-2006 - 1:26am
Thanks!