Fisting spoiling intercourse?

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Registered: 07-16-2004
Fisting spoiling intercourse?
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Thu, 05-25-2006 - 3:57am

Hi Everyone

I have read numerous posts on how incredible fisting is (vaginal mostly,but anal too).
I have not done this as I have some concerns. My main concern centres around fisting stretching the vagina to the point where is spoils the pleasure for the couple during sex. The guy will hav less pressure on his member in the stretched vagina, (very much like after child birth) and second, the female would not really enjoy a penis in her, as she has had a much bigger object penetrate her.

Any comments from fisters and non- fisters out there??

Would a woman being fisted be referred to as a fistee lol

Sammy

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Registered: 04-21-2006
Thu, 05-25-2006 - 7:32pm

here is a good informational link about this....pleasures, how to do it, hazards...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisting

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Thu, 06-01-2006 - 5:15pm
We fist a couple times a year, and I can assure you that sex is still great for both of us. Whichever partner gets fisted is usualy a little sore the next day, but vaginas and sphincters are very elastic, and quickly return to their original shape.

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Registered: 07-16-2004
Fri, 06-02-2006 - 11:15am

Hi,
WOuld you say that fisting serves as foreplay or as the main course when you do it?

Sammy

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Mon, 06-05-2006 - 3:18am
makes for quiet the intense orgasam acually
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Tue, 06-06-2006 - 11:20am
It depends. If I'm fisting her, its usually foreplay, because she wants to finish with me (well, a different part of me) inside her. If she's fisting me, I'm so wrung out after fisting that further activities have to wait a while.

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martinisnsushi - living the good life since 1963


CL Redbook "Get Inside His Head"

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martinisnsushi - the two most important food groups!

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Tue, 06-06-2006 - 11:50am

Hi Martinisnsushi

How many fingers can she fit in your anus and how many fingers can you fit in her vagina and her anus?

Whats your eventual goal with regards to fisting, do you think either would fit more in?

Sammy

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Sun, 06-11-2006 - 8:15pm

I can fit my hand inside her up to the base of the thumb. At that point, the muscle and tissue starts to get tight enough that I worry about hurting her (and she's usually thrashing around and coming so hard by that point that more really isn't necessary). I'd like to be able to get all the way up to the wrist, but we don't really "work at it" so much as we fist a few times a year when we're feeling kinky.


FWIW, what really works for her is when I have 4 fingers in past the knuckles and

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martinisnsushi - the two most important food groups!

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Registered: 07-16-2004
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 3:14am

WOw thats impressive. What does FWIW stand for??
Also, when you say she fits her whole hand in your anus, would it be till her wrist, n how far does she go up your rectum? Can you cum from just fisting?

How many inches would you say your anus expands when the biggest part of her hand is in you? And how sore is it during and after?

Sammy

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Mon, 06-12-2006 - 7:17pm

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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 2:51am

LOl, oh yes , your mom will be verry proud :)

Have you found that fisting affecting you or leading to any 'incontinence'.
I have read people saying they cant control their 'wind' after being fisted.
Any truth in it?

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