Footsie at a Movie With A Stranger

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Registered: 07-03-2006
Footsie at a Movie With A Stranger
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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 7:45pm
Is playing footsie with a stranger cheating?It happened about 3 weeks ago at the movie I was with my boyfriend and I sitting next to this guy.The movie starts and I feel his foot bumping on mine.Then it turned into caressing I was sAying OMG to myself.I moved my foot away but this guy started feeling my foot again.I couldnt help myself it was feeling so good and let him do it.My man had no idea this stranger was fondling my feet and was getting aroused from the danger of getting caught.He was then caressing my ankle and I started touching his foot playfully too.The movie ended but I was so aroused from my stranger encounter I want to do it again.I couldnt stop thinking about him for two weeks.It was like the "kissing bandit" but with his feet.Is this cheating?What would you do if this happened to you?

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Registered: 01-16-2005
Mon, 07-03-2006 - 11:33pm
For me, definition of cheating needs to include context too. From your posting it sounds as though you are dating, the footsey did not progress any further and you are not seeing the guy. In my opinion you did not cheat and even if you were married to your bf chances are I still would say it was not cheating. Do beat yourself up over this enjoyable encounter and be happy that it did happen.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-04-2006 - 12:27am
I would definitely not consider this cheating. It was a chance encounter and something that I doubt seriously would happen again.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Tue, 07-04-2006 - 8:05am
I don't think it's cheating, but how would SO feel, that's what matters.


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Registered: 05-24-2003
Tue, 07-04-2006 - 8:10am
That was my thought, too, LM.
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Registered: 09-09-2005
Tue, 07-04-2006 - 2:47pm
yes LM is right how would SO feel. my DH would want to punch the crap out of the guy.
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Tue, 07-04-2006 - 5:21pm
JL, my SO wouldn't be at all happy about something like this, and I wouldn't be happy if someone did this to me.

 


 


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Registered: 09-09-2005
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 9:10am
X I am not sure how I would feel if it happened to DH. I don't think it would bother me too much either. DH is going to college and alot of women try to hit on him and his reponse is they have to come home and hit on me in order to get to him. LOL so I guess if he took the same approach I would be fine with it.
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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 9:14am
bwaaahaaaahaaa!!!
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Registered: 09-09-2005
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 9:19am

bwaaahaaaahaaa!!! That's goooood!!!!

is that a good response or bad??

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Wed, 07-05-2006 - 9:26am
that's good.

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