***FRIDAY'S FIVE***

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***FRIDAY'S FIVE***
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Fri, 03-28-2003 - 6:20am
1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating?

2. If you've ever had an affair , why?

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell?

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught)

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know?

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Fri, 03-28-2003 - 9:09am
1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating? yes. I almost think oral sex is more intimate than intercourse.

2. If you've ever had an affair , why? no physical affairs.

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell? n/a

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught) n/a

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know? absolutely not. Better left in the past. The only way I would want to know is if there was something from that affair that could come up later, such as he fathered a kid.

Jen
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 9:50am
Friday's Five.....................

1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating?

I am a swinger so in our opinions, when your SO is there watching it is not cheating.



2. If you've ever had an affair , why?

Once again, if it is out in the open and your SO is involved, we do not classify it as an affair.

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell?

Never cheated. We don't believe in monogamy and feel that swinging is the answer to be together yet be with others and not feel that we are cheating or having affairs.

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught)

He is always close by. That is our arrangement.

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know?

Does not apply to this relationship, we are open and share everything. With my ex husband, I don't care.

juststef

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 10:21am
1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating?

yes

2. If you've ever had an affair , why?

hmmm, well, we weren't together at the time, and i slept with someone else, but i did it to get back at him

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell

i felt like crap the next day, so yah, i did tell him.

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught)

no

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know?

yes i would, i think when the cheater takes on the attitude of what they don't know won't hurt them is awful. cheating has a nasty way of being found out. i'd rather be told be my partner, then thru the grape vine

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 03-29-2003 - 12:34am
1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating?

Yes...I think that in some ways it is more intimate than intercourse.

2. If you've ever had an affair , why?

N/A

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell?

N/A

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught)

N/A

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know?

This is more difficult for me to answer, because I just KNOW that DH wouldn't. I would think, however, that I would want him to be honest about it, so that we could hopefully confront whatever problems he felt we were having...deal with the issues of our marriage in order to make it strong and healthy again.



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Sat, 03-29-2003 - 1:40am
1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating?

Oh yeah...you bet.

2. If you've ever had an affair , why?

I did a bit of cheating waaaaaaay back in the day, but never with a truly *serious* relationship.

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell?

Never cheated.

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught)

Nope.

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know?

Um...I think I would want to know. It'd probably kill me, but I'd rather know than not.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 03-29-2003 - 1:51pm
well its saturday but heres my answers:

1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating?

yes. its worse than having sex with someone else in my opinion. but like someone else said if you are there and both partners are willing then anything goes.

2. If you've ever had an affair , why?

no.

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell?

i would tell his still, even though it wouldnt be considered cheating right now (atleast i hope for right now)

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught)

yeah! i kissed a girl with him standing right there. but neither of us considered it cheating.

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know?

i would wanna know right away. i think it would hurt me way to much to know he had an affair way back when and didnt tell me till years later. but i think i would want to know just cause im the type of person who wants to know everything, yes it is an annoying trait but thats how i am.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 04-02-2003 - 12:50am
1. In your opinion is oral sex cheating?

Uh, YEAH!

2. If you've ever had an affair , why?

Never have, never will. Faithful to the end. :)

3. If you've cheated on your SO did you tell?

I wouldn't ever cheat, but if it did happen, I would have to tell or I'd feel even worse...

4.Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone other than your SO , with your SO close by(like you could've been caught)

Nope

5. If your Partner had an affair , after YEARS of being faithful, would you want to know?

Yes. It may end the relationship, but it's something I would want to know.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 04-04-2003 - 8:52am
1.) Yea, I think so.. If it's something you did with another and ouldn't tell your s/o it's cheating!

2.) Not yet! If i did it would be Because my sexual needs weren't being met or respected.

3.) na

4.) No, sounds exciting though:-0

5.) Hmmm, I really am not sure. It would depend on a number of things.