frustrated

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Registered: 09-24-2009
frustrated
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Mon, 05-24-2010 - 8:42pm
I am amazed at how many sexually frustrated people there are. I'm talking men and women. Why aren't more people bumping uglies. I understand obligations but sheesh.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2008
In reply to: firestick68
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 12:32pm

well in my case, it is sicknesses that are killing our bumping ugly time.

Either I am sick or he is recovering from surgery.

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Registered: 09-20-2007
In reply to: firestick68
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 3:01pm
I hear ya, deja! When you live everyday with five chronic illnesses like I do, you can't always have sex whenever you want to. Sometimes, a lot of the times, your body says no.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: firestick68
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 8:59am

Since it takes two to tango and one of the two

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2009
In reply to: firestick68
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 8:05pm

I can definitely understand injury or disease. I am speaking

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2007
In reply to: firestick68
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 8:47pm
Hop over to the Mismatched Libidos board. You'll find plenty of company over there. Seems like it's a common problem among couples, though I think that some people just aren't as interested in sex as others. There are times when I can do without it and it doesn't bother me a bit. Other times sex is all I think about.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-29-2007
In reply to: firestick68
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 12:44am

Can I come with you? Working on divorce and trying to find a job in NC!!! Want to move south. Need a change.

I am done with sexual frustration. I understand that children, stress, and illness can all play a part of low interest. That is part of life. But I believe there are other things you can do to keep interest going. Hugging, cuddling, kissing, holding hands, talk, laughing to name a few. Its not just about the sex its about intimacy. If someone is not interested in maintaining intimacy than maybe they aren't into you. Life is too damn short to miss out on this part of life. Once I realized my ex's lack of interest (where once there an active interest) was because he no longer wanted me, I was done. too many years wasted being miserable. I want happiness joy and love. Not interested? Keep moving.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: firestick68
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 10:18am

Sure, come on down.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-29-2007
In reply to: firestick68
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 10:28am
I have been trying to find a job just about everywhere and anywhere. have been working on trying to get an interview for one in NC. Tough market these days no matter where you live!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-06-2007
In reply to: firestick68
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 3:57pm
You better have a big house for all of us girlfriend ;) hehe















iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: firestick68
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 5:28pm

Where there's a will, there's a way, we'll

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