Get the Ball Rolling!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Get the Ball Rolling!
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Sat, 12-23-2006 - 11:17am

There is a girl at volleyball whom I like a lot. We are talking and laughing together, but I have to get the ball rolling. What may I do?

Last night, when I saw her, I went up to greet her and asked "What up? I did not see you last week!" I found it to be a nice gesture, but I know that afterward I fumbled a few times: One, I was not able to lock eye contact with her during the whole time. Two, I jumped the gun when I leaned in to brush my arm against hers and she pulled away. Three, I could not wisk her away from her friends because I was too self-conscious to make a move in front of people. Four, I was not able to move the conversation into the more intimate, personal topics.

Right now, the problem is that since she is going to Japan, I will not see her for three weeks. None the less, I am not giving up. This girl is mine and I am not going to let this one slip away!

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 9:37am
Can you just ask her for a date?


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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 2:09pm

Like LM said, hang out after volleyball or something, and casually exchange e-mails with her. This way while she is away, you can still "talk" and maybe get to know one another better. Hey keep us posted and let us know how things progress.

-LongIslandBabe

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 12-25-2006 - 9:46pm

If you can catch her after volleyball, just casually slip it in.

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 12-25-2006 - 9:47pm

Welcome to the board, longislandbabe.

 

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 2:46am
Thanks for the responses, but I need some thing more specific than going up and asking her out. Just to be clear, I intend to go all the way -- to seduce her and lay with her! Hence, I would like to find out how I can become more intimate with her -- both physically and emotionally.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 4:34am

LMAO - cute.

 

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 5:51am
My thoughts exactly lol.

 


 


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Registered: 03-11-2006
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 1:28pm
Can I ask how old you are? Do you have a lot of dating experience? Most of us on this board are "older", at least mid to late 20's and you come across as younger.

 

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 10:20pm
I am 25 and I know that I sound juvenile. The problem is that I never grew; I never went through this stage -- looking at girls silly, feeling awkward in front of them, asking for sex at the wrong time ... -- when I was eighteen, nineteen. Please do not talk me out of this because I have to go through this experience so I can grow. Just tell me what to do.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 12-27-2006 - 12:33am
By the way, it is not that I am impetuous! The first coffee, I know, is the start of the mating dance which I have to go through. On the other hand, I am not a psychopath either. If the girl turns me down, I will accept and respect her decision. So you can see, I am just a normal guy who is trying to catch up.

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