getting felt up

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Registered: 07-19-2004
getting felt up
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Fri, 11-10-2006 - 4:47pm
how old were you the first time you let a male feel your boobs??? be honest. did you enjoy it?
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Registered: 09-24-2004
Sat, 11-11-2006 - 10:01pm

No one answered the "did you enjoy it" part. I was interested in seeing some of those responses.

I don't think it was just me, but when I was a teenage guy, girls were more aggressive than you hear about when it came to most things, making out, or placing my hands either under a shirt, or down her pants. The first time this happened to me and she was wet....I could hardly speak....didn't quite know what to do with that, or what to think of it...but she was in a really good mood!

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Registered: 05-09-2004
Sat, 11-11-2006 - 10:42pm

I had a group of male friends (that included my brother) that I would let grab my boobs, when we were goofing off between the ages of 12 and 16. Usually it was through a shirt, but at the pool they would get their hand under my bikini top. Or if I was sleeping at this one guys house (his sister was my best friend), him or his friend (if he had one sleeping over too) would grab my bralesss boobs under my pajamas.

One guy also got his hand down into the bottoms of a bikini and got a finger full of juices. This actually ended the playful groping. I guess the way I was beginning to feel was that I was old enough to start pairing off and expressing special feelings for one particular person.

I never stopped them, and if I had wanted to I could have turned any of them into a pretzel faster than they knew what was happening. So, I guess it's fair to say I liked it.

I had just turned 18 the first time being felt up was associated with dating and making out. I dated very non-forward guys in high school (obviously none of the guys that had been my childhood friends

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 12:32pm
I was 14 and I *wanted* to like it, lol. But, he didn't really know how to do it well, lol. The NEXT guy, however, was juuuuuuuust fine at it!!!!! ;-)
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Registered: 10-31-2006
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 3:19pm

Hi Linda. Very interesting comments ladies. Looks like the avg age was 15. I would like to add 1 additional question, if I may? How old are you now?? I am just trying to get an understanding as to how girls are today as compared to being a teenager in the 60s!

I am a 53 happily married hb for 31 years to my lovely wife, who is also 53. We were not each other 'firsts' btw as far as dating goes, but only as marriage goes. The first time I touched a girls boobies was when I was 18 and she was to. And it was both ours 'first'. It seems back then most of my peers and friends were 18 or maybe 17 or so when they got their first feel. Now adays girls seem to develop so quickly and all this grooping starts at around 12-13 yrs old. Just curious as to my fellow board members opinions on this age differences.

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 3:41pm

I'm 42, now, glove. My SO (60yo come Tuesday!!!) says the same thing...that women my age were/are faaaaar too experimental far too young. He was 17 when he had all his firsts. He often mourns my "loss of innocence", believing, I think, that it was a primary cause of all my sexual unhappiness and frustration in adulthood. I don't know that I buy that, but maybe there's a grain of truth to it.

Lucky

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Registered: 07-19-2004
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 5:08pm
i am pushing 50. i was 15 the first time my bra was off with a boy.at 14 several times in the theater while kissing i let myself get felt but had my jersey and bra on. yes i loved the experience. and i do even today.
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Registered: 08-11-2006
Wed, 11-22-2006 - 8:49am

As long as we're trying to get a handle on ages for "scientific" research LOL, I'm on the short(very short)side of 40 and my first feel up "experience" was at 16....the girl was 14 or 15. I enjoyed it and I think she did too. Two days later was the first time I had sex too, with the same girl.

tk

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Thu, 11-23-2006 - 9:21am
What is your frustration and unhappiness, not enough, not fullfilling, don't like it at all?.
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Registered: 05-24-2003
Thu, 11-23-2006 - 10:35am

Well, things are good, now. With him. But before him?? When I was married??? I rarely O'd. When I did, they were these pitifully weak little things. I left sex more uptight and frustrated than when we started. I had hangups galore. I thought I was some wierd mutant or something. Everyone talked about how great sex was but I didn't get what the big deal was.

Enter SO and now that I have experienced good sex, I get what the big deal is, lol. But his theory is that I started so young and never really did find anyone who was MORE experienced than me, really, to show me the joys of sex. So, all I got was experimentation and, later, marriage to someone who knew even less than me and what's more had no real desire to learn any more. My bf seems to think (I'm guessing, here, he hasn't expounded a whole lot on this) that I got jaded about the time I should have just started experimenting and so shut down.

Lucky

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Registered: 06-24-2006
Thu, 11-23-2006 - 5:48pm
I was 11 years old and he was 12, We were lying on the floor in my tv room and decided to see what we looked like. well part way through we got caught by my dad. Gosh did I ever get into trouble for that.

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