i think young girls when they first start growing breasts look forward to showing them to someone espically if its a boy they like. this has been going on for ever. nothing wrong with it. it does lead to sex and thats when we have to be carefull.
Kind of funny how we devolpe, the proper person at the proper time! You have to always wonder in our sexuality what if! Kinda of scary but erotic at the same time!
I really liked that question and reading the responses. I'll never forget the first time I tried to "feel up" my first girlfriend. She was 14 and I was 15. My first boy-girl party. All us kids sitting in the living room of her house. Girls sitting on their boyfriends laps. No lights on except the TV. My hand slowly worked its way up her body feeling her boobs thru her shirt and bra. It didn't seem to bother her when I worked fingers between the buttons of her shirt to feel her smooth, warm bra. But oh my when I tried to slip my fingers under her bra my hand was swiftly grabbed and pulled away. Of course I tried several more times that evening with the same results. Its funny to me, that now I can't remember the first time I got under a bra or even inside panties but I do remember that night.
I was 13 & my shock was that I enjoyed it so much! I'm just past 60 now & my boobs still stand proud (sag is located else where), I still enjoy the attention they get. Over the years, it has been my good fortune to have had them appreciated often.
Thank you for offering me hope. I'm a 56-year-old male who recently went through an extremely painful divorce, and I've been thinking that maybe my sex life is over. If you still enjoy the intimacy, then other women my age must. Sex isn't everything, but it is still important to me. I really miss it.
Hope is still available! Over the years my attitude toward sex & my body has changed greatly, when I was young I was curious and a willing explorer, in my teens I became self-conscious and timid. In my 20s & married, love allowed me to be more open with my trusted partner. While going through my career years (25-55), I was committed to self-improvement and advancment(as was my husband), sex & pleasure became a tried & true means of relaxation in a stressful world. Now, in our retirement, we are both more willing to explore, experiment & diverge from the beaten path(spice!), I find myself glowing in the attention of my friends & partners, I love being confident about life!
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As I said before, I first got felt up at 18, but my first real kiss was at 17.
Over the years my attitude toward sex & my body has changed greatly, when I was young I was curious and a willing explorer, in my teens I became self-conscious and timid. In my 20s & married, love allowed me to be more open with my trusted partner. While going through my career years (25-55), I was committed to self-improvement and advancment(as was my husband), sex & pleasure became a tried & true means of relaxation in a stressful world.
Now, in our retirement, we are both more willing to explore, experiment & diverge from the beaten path(spice!), I find myself glowing in the attention of my friends & partners, I love being confident about life!
Edited 11/26/2006 10:06 am ET by o31l1
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