Going Solo

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Going Solo
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Tue, 03-21-2006 - 10:04am

For the ladies...For Solo action do you use your fingers or your toy more often?

Guys, which one turns you on more when watching a lady go Solo???

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Registered: 10-13-2005
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 10:14am
I definately prefer to watch DW with a toy. I can imagine her with another guy, or just get a view of what it's like when I'm penetrating her or sometimes she'll want the toy and me orally at the same time. I like to call that the double bonus.
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Tue, 03-21-2006 - 11:48am

Either or is fine to watch. My DW actually uses a combo of toy and fingers to pleasure herself.

I do enjoy watch her sliding her big toy in and out.

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Registered: 03-09-2006
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 11:56am

I am going to have to say that this is something I do not do very often.

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Tue, 03-21-2006 - 12:21pm

Here's another guy's view.

When DW and I were dating, she did not want to "go all the way" until we were married. In fact, I'm pretty sure she would have preferred to not have done anything more than kiss before marriage. But I digress. Our "compromise" during our courtship and engagement was to masturbate in front of each other. It was very stimulating to watch and listen to her pleasure herself with her fingers.

After we were married, I gave her a pocket size vibrator which we have used far too sparingly. I would love to watch her pleasure herself with this pocket rocket, but I doubt she would do so for me now.

After an initial period of limited experimentation, our sexual repetoire has become painfully narrow. On the rare occasions that she is interested in sex, she expects me to come to bed fully erect, wants no foreplay, wants me to cum as quickly as possible and to wear a condom - despite the fact that I had a vasectomy at her insistence several years ago - because "it's too messy" if I don't. The only position she wants is doggy style. And we haven't kissed in years. Needless to say, our sex life is suffering.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 12:39pm
well, I just flew solo....sort of, I had a lot of help from a cyber friend (!!!) and I used my fingers and a toy. :)


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Registered: 03-09-2006
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 12:44pm

Naughty, naughty...Little M!


;)


Thanks for sharing!!!

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Registered: 08-12-2005
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 12:49pm

mmmm.....bad girl.....

i'm jelous....

LOL

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 12:54pm
Well I never!!!... LOL...right! A good day!
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 1:14pm
it was awfully nice........


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Registered: 10-13-2005
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 1:19pm

LM,

I thought I felt a disturbance in the force. You naughty lttle girl, you deserve a good spanking for that.

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