Is a "hand job" with your SO conside...

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Is a "hand job" with your SO conside...
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Tue, 03-21-2006 - 8:44pm

Is a "hand job" with your SO considered sex?



  • Yes
  • No


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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2005
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 9:23pm

No way Jose.


I don't consider hand play with myself as sex, so I wouldn't if there was a male in the room participating.


Sorry, but to me, intercourse is sex.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 7:37am

Sure, I consider it sex.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2000
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 7:55am

I'd say if people are playing with one another's 'parts', it's sex. IC is obvious, but by your comments, does that mean you think oral or anal isn't? I'd certainly think so, so along the same line, even if it's 'just' mutual masturbation with the SO, it's still sex.

Just my $0.02.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2006
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 9:01am
I consider it as sex. There are times when all I want is a good handjob. She likes it to because she can control the flow. Sometimes she likes to see how far it will shoot up on my chest and other times she likes to hold it straight up and squeezes tight so it just runs out the tip and back down over her hand.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 10:16am
naw...so if your man got a hand job from someone else, that wouldnt be cheating because he didnt have "sex"?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2005
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 10:52am
for me getting a hand job is not sex, usually for me a hand job leads into sex, or atleast oral. for me i think any type or penetration is sex. . .
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2003
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 11:43am
I will say that my DW gives the best HJ's ever! Way better than what I can do myself! If the kids are home sleeping, I have to bite my tongue very hard as I white knuckle the headboard! I consider that sex for sure!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-14-2006
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 12:00pm
dont think so,but itis agood start to the good stuff
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2003
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 12:40pm

It's *all* sex, voodoo!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-09-2006
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 12:45pm

WOW, Lucky!

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