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is he ready for anal
| Tue, 12-19-2006 - 3:17pm |
My DH of 16 years has never had interest in trying anal. He has made his feelings clear, so I figured we would never get there. He has never done anal but I have in previous relationships. I really miss it, and fantasize often about the possibility. He has recently been saying things like "I have no interest in ever being touched there...but you on the other hand, I think you might like it." Is this a sign that I should encourage him to give it a try?

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Welcome to the board, hunt4o.
So, it's been a few days. Any new developments? I'm over here cheering you on. Someone should get a happy bottom, even if it isn't me! :^)
I originally came up sideways to Dh about anal sex. I went to him like I was all worried what he would think of me and like I was ashamed about the nasty things I'd been thinking. I knew he'd never make me feel bad about something if he could help it so I was safe even if he wasn't interested in doing it. He actually tried it for me but wasn't crazy about it because it went so slow. Then after a while he wanted to do it again. It seems the idea grew on him afterward when he'd remember it. I guess the memory was sexy.
-Alecia
Absolutely - to me it sounds like a door has opened for you - go girl.
Rich
Rich, good to the last drop
Well, we haven't gotten there yet, but have really spent alot of time exploring other areas. Beginning Christmas night, he's getting 7 gifts from the dirty little elf. One of them is a DVD, so I'm hoping that will be a great door opener. It's the last gift of the 7, so I'll let everyone know how it goes!
Wish me luck :)
Good luck!
Christmas night was a fun night for me!!! We explored new areas of sexuality - the lights of the christmas tree provide a different atmosphere -- plus the kids we just tired for running around all day with presents... :)
No worry then about little ones catching you in the throws of passion.
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