How did you know, dom or sub?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2008
How did you know, dom or sub?
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Sun, 10-11-2009 - 12:01pm

If there's been a thread here before on this.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2008
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 12:13pm
ok being new to the board. i'm sorry i didn't scroll down all the way, the new adds underneath the first section are throwing me off.

 

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 12:47pm

Are you a dominant, or sub? I am a sub.

How did you know that you were A dominant or a sub? I've know at least since puberty that I was a sub. All of my sexual fantasies have surrounded BDSM, with me as the sub. I was married to a vanilla man and was not happy, satisfied or fulfilled with the sex.

What was the first experience like for you, did it satisfy you, fail, or make you want more? My first experience did satisfy me and make me want more.

Was their a trigger? No, I don't think so, unless you call my divorce a trigger, which finally allowed me to search for what I really wanted and needed.

Does your play include bondage, control, spanking, whipping/spanking, toys, all of the above? All of the above and more.

As a dominant what's your style? do you give assignments? do you have a current sub? if not how do you satisfy your dominant needs. N/A

As a sub what's your style, or is it dictated by your master/mistress? do you have a current Dom/me? if not how you satisfy your sub nature needs. My sexually submissive style is indeed dictated by my Master and has been for the past 11 years.

Anything else you're willing to share? I am submissive to my core. Always have been and always will be. It took me until I was almost 40 to be able to fully express what I wanted and needed. But believe me, it was well worth the wait! I can never go back to vanilla. It's just not who I am or what I want to be.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2008
Sun, 10-11-2009 - 12:56pm

Thanks for answering SH,


So even at a young age you knew?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 3:22pm

Are you a dominant, or sub?I am a sub.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 3:44pm

thanks for Sharing Summerbreeze,


So do you all three live together? It just amazes me, because that sounds a lot like a fantasy story i wrote.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 4:03pm
my female lover (Sara) and I live together and my male (Jim) comes to stay with us some nights.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 4:34pm

Gushing is always good.


I'm guessing your master and mistress won't mind since they make you use twitter.


1. how did you meet sara?


2 how did Jim become involved?


3. consider yourself polyamorous?


4. do you ever go back to Jim's place for alone time with him?


5. would the 3 of

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 4:42pm

1. how did you meet sara?
Friend I knew a while ago and I ran in to her about 3 years ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 5:31pm

how do you enjoy being tied up?


what kind of toy play is used on you?


what kind of training have you had?


what's your favorite punishment?


what does your mistress do that send you over the edge almost every time?


 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2008
Tue, 10-13-2009 - 9:37pm

how do you enjoy being tied up?
I have not ever really been tied up.

what kind of toy play is used on you?
I have used a vibe and dildo mainly

what kind of training have you had?
Constantly pushed to the brink of orgasm and backed off. More lessons not really training.

what's your favorite punishment?
I love inspection!

what does your mistress do that send you over the edge almost every time? Hmmmmm I would say...making me grind my clit while ass is in the air

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