How do you get past being upset w/DH/SO?

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How do you get past being upset w/DH/SO?
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Fri, 06-23-2006 - 7:52pm

And get back into a sexy mood? I love sex and can't get enough of it, but when we're fighting and/or not connecting emotionally the LAST thing I want is him touching me. How do I get past that? I used to try to hide it and just close my eyes and let him have his way and hope it would hurry up. I don't think that helped either of us, though.

Any advice? lol

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Fri, 06-23-2006 - 10:37pm
Thanks for the advice, guys... maybe I need to ask for some space when I'm that upset. I'm sure it would help.
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Fri, 06-23-2006 - 11:27pm

We usually go for the space option, give each other a day or two and then ask, "What's the matter?", or, "So when are you going to tell me what's wrong?"


If your partner won't give you space to think things through, demand it!

 


 


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Fri, 06-23-2006 - 11:36pm


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Fri, 06-23-2006 - 11:40pm
Sure LM
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Fri, 06-23-2006 - 11:44pm

You're one of the board leaders LM

 


 


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Sat, 06-24-2006 - 10:35am

Hello bayoumomof2:
"I do need space... he won't give it to me, though."

Each person needs their time and space alone. YOU need to state "I need space and time alone!" Stand your ground.

Mac

 

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Sat, 06-24-2006 - 2:05pm
bayo, did you guys work things out?


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Sat, 06-24-2006 - 2:41pm

We're doing a little better. I'm not exactly happy, but not near as upset as I was yesterday.

I'm glad y'all worked it out!!! :)

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Sat, 06-24-2006 - 3:04pm


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Sat, 06-24-2006 - 4:04pm
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Edited 6/24/2006 4:21 pm ET by bayouguywm

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