How old?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2005
How old?
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Sun, 03-19-2006 - 10:49pm
How much older of a person than yourself would you have sex with?
You see guys who marry gals much younger than them and think, "that guy is having sex with a gal young enough to be his daughter". Whats your limit?
Personally, I have seen women who are old enough to be my mother (18-20 yrs older than me)but would still have a go with them in bed...

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-22-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 12:59am
Well to me it's all in age groups...like a 20 year old going with a 40 year old, is too much difference, where as a 40 year old going with a 60 year old doesn't seem so bad...I don't know. I don't like to stray too far away from my age group. I am the oldest with my guys...my DH is two years younger and my lover (threesome partner) is 7 years younger.
Sometimes the diff is so great that it is gross to me...I can't imagine being in bed with an 80 year old man...but young women do it...sometimes money or profit of some kind is involved other times not. Just my thoughts.....
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Registered: 12-24-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 12:59am

I've never placed great importance upon standard age-related parameters or similar transient characteristics in my choice of a partner. When I was in my

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2003
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 4:22am

Well, I'm 41 and my bf is 59.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 4:55am

I once heard a rule of thumb that the lower age limit for a woman that a guy can "appropriately" date can be calculated by dividing his age in 2, and then adding 7, but that always struck me as the kind of stupid "rule" that guys come up with sometimes when they gather in groups and there's beer involved. I also know plenty of guys who won't date a woman older than themselves, which I find equally limiting. My DW is 2 1/2 years older than me, and it's never been a big deal for us.

I've always felt that how old someone is has more to do with their state of mind than the number of trips they've made around the sun.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 6:18am
Im not sure..I can't imagine someone much older or much younger than me.
The oldest i've ever slept w/is my current BF and he's only 6 years older than me, and younger was a long time ago and he was 2 years younger than me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2004
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 6:39am

SO's rule, requested by his dd, is that they are older than she is, lol.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2003
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 7:36am

Interesting...

Honestly, it depends on the person- how healthy they are, how energetic, what their personality is like... all that plus the age makes a more complete package of a person for me. I prefer to date my age or older (my husband is 2.5 years younger than me- I consider that the same age as me). I'm in my mid thirties; my gf is older than me, and her husband is twice that age difference from me. They are both in better physical shape than I am; they are lively, with-it, clever, fun, and exciting people. They could be 70 years old, and so long as all that was still true- and they were not grizzled old decrepit and snarly, crotchety geezers- I'd still screw them both.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 7:59am
agreed!


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2003
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 4:28pm
From this guy's perspective, though there is something to be said about a younger woman's body from an initial "hmmmm" perspective, I totally prefer maturity in every regard. But there is nothing quite like sexual maturity. A total turn on. Evidenced by many of the posters here finding their sexuality in a great way as days pass. Of course that goes against the grain of what we heard from the spring break statistics now doesn't it. Well I am sticking with MILF's! LOL
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Registered: 03-11-2006
In reply to: tampa_man
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 4:32pm
I don't think age has that big a

 

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