Hubby wants...Should I

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Registered: 10-10-2005
Hubby wants...Should I
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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 10:31pm

Hubby wants me to screw another man. He does me with different size strap ons and he is perfect for me without anything. But he really gets off with me going on a big one!


I am ok with it and we have a couple of possiblities...do I think he really wants it, but will he change his mind after???

 

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Registered: 09-26-2008
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 6:55pm

A change of mind is always a possibility....I would be sure that he understands that once it happens it can't erased.

Curious though, do you react differently when he "does you with a big one"? What is it that turns him on so much about the idea?

Is it the fact that is another man, or the size aspect?


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Registered: 10-10-2005
Sat, 07-24-2010 - 7:59pm

I do act differently cause he does too, he says the senstation of longer strokes inside of me is a turn on. He does me harder so I respond more. Sex is good with or without them.


He really wants me to feel a real big one bcause sometimes the toy ones make me raw because they are harder with little to no give.


Ideally he would love to watch me getting done he says.

 

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Sun, 07-25-2010 - 12:21pm

No one can answer that question but the two of you. If you proceed, you need to be sure you've been honest with each other and established ground rules for what will happen. Lots of people enjoythis sort if play, but there are also a lot of couples who have tried it and wish they hadn't.


DW and I have has a mostly open relationship for close to 20 years, but we established ground rules early on, and both agreed that our relationship was based on a mutual emotional connection, and not necessarily physical monogamy. We also revisit the ground rules often, and make sure there aren't any lingering resentments of misunderstandings. It takes work, but then any relationship takes work.

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Registered: 10-11-2010
Mon, 10-11-2010 - 11:04pm

honestly I feel that if you're both sure about it go for it, but keep in mind there's always the possibility he could get jealous later on when reflecting on what happened