I think my kitty is messed up....
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| Thu, 01-18-2007 - 11:10am |
Ok...has this happened to any of you?
I have torn almost to my anus. Like, its hard to explain, cause the walls are still tight....but I am tearing more and more from there back.
The 1st time I noticed it was pretty bad I think...there was quite abit of blood and he cleaned me and looked and said there was a pretty bad tear. So we cut back for a while (not completely cause I wouldnt stop having sex w/ him, even when he was like, hey-you are messed up down there...lol)So...instead of 3 or 4 times in a day we dropped to 1 and it healed up.
But last night, after we were through, I noticed a stabbing/burning sensation and there is another tear.
I know I should probably go to the Dr, but my philosophy on that is, even if they put stitches in, I would eventually tear them again.
I do have a pretty small "area" and he is really blessed with the girth-but this only has happened the 2 times. Im not sure what I should do at this point
Sorry this was so gross, but Im hoping some of you have experience this sometime other than having your babies.
Thanks in Advance

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I know, I know *sigh*
I am such a dr. phobe, but you sound just like my BF
Thank you.
I totally agree.
And here's a message from your lovely Gynecology CL:
SEE YOUR DOCTOR ASAP.
Not only are you at risk from infection, you are at risk of permanent damage to the area. Also, if there are any issues with the suppleness of the skin down there, you might want to try applying vitamin E cream to the area. This will also help the skin to heal, but it's important that you see a doctor. You could have a bacterial infection already, and not know about it - this will prevent it from healing properly.
No more sex until you get this treated and it heals properly. I'm dead serious about this. It's better to get it sorted out now, and be able to have a sex life, than to permanently wreck yourself and not be able to have sex at all. Also, as he is girthy, I cannot stress enough the importance of using lots of lube at all times.
If there is ever any pain or bleeding, you need to stop immediately - mid-orgasm or not! He needs to take it very easily on you, and you need to avoid positions that make your vagina tighter, as this won't help either.
I am old enough to know what to do, I just wanted to know if anyone has experienced the same thing or not. I didnt want to be worried if it was just from a night of rough sex and nothing to worry about.
Thank you all. I am a little more worried now, but sure of what I need to do at this point.
If they didn't do a good job of stitching the episiotomy in the first place so it didn't heal strongly, there isn't enough lubrication during sex, and the skin in that area isn't kept supple, then yes, you can be more susceptible to tearing.
HTH!
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