I think porn is disgusting
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I think porn is disgusting
| Mon, 11-13-2006 - 11:54am |
But mostly, it's just boring and stupid.
One of the benefits of high speed internet is now I can watch porn videos online.

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The definitions that I'm familiar with and what I was referring to:
creampie -
Jazz,
I totally agree with you. This is why I don't like to watch hardcore porn or modern day porn all that often. It skips, the romance/seduction and skill parts and just goes right into very vulgar and sometimes strange sex acts. Many of those acts are indeed nausea-worthy. I also agree that many young people get their idea of what sex is supposed to be like based on the pornography that they watch. I know my husband certainly had quite a few backwards ideas until I told him the *real*, lol. I normally screen my adult movies very carefully, and only watch films produced by certain companies (because I know their work is quality erotica but classy at the same time). I also watch a lot of older adult movies (i.e. 70's, 80's, early 90's, ect.) My husband agrees with my choice of movies, although every now and then he likes to watch the hardcore stuff. Mostly he likes the more sophisticated and "classy" variety that stimulates the mind and gets you worked up.
Hardcore pornography nowadays is plain degrading, too boring, and kinda unsettling at times, but this is what it has progressed to and I have no doubt that it will get worse. There comes a point where a person can watch so much of this type of porn that they become desensitized or unaroused by regular/pleasurable love-making. This is responsible for many erectile dysfunction problems in young men who can't find a SO willing to accomodate that type of sexual appetite (they just can't get turned by their partner solely, they need degrading acts performed to get hard and enjoy themselves)---it also causes many a problem in marriages. There is no focus on female pleasure at all in most I've seen, just a lot of hard ramming, spitting, and sometimes gagging (from rough/deep throat oral). I just wonder about the psychological health most of these women have, who participate in the more darker forms of pornography. It's just not healthy, no matter how you slice it. Degrading yourself and being gutter dirty is not good for anyone's self-esteem, and it certainly doesn't get you respected, IMHO---but there are many teenage girls who seem to think that they're not performing well in bed unless they do it like the women in those films, and there are young guys (older ones too) who expect their wives and SO to behave in the same manner.
You can be "freaky/explorative" and fantastic in bed without doing reproachful or sometimes *inhumane* acts, but each to his own. I have a very fulfilling and extremely enjoyable sex life without being made to do questionable sex acts or requesting that type of activity from my husband. I know this is the taboos board, but there are some things that are beyond *taboo* and belong under the category of bizarre. Thanks for sharing your feelings with us, Jazz.
Chakra
>Dh and I did have some fun with it on Saturday night though. We only watched about
>10-15 minutes of videos and got so turned on we had to take care of each other.
Hmm me thinks I spot a contradiction...It disgusted you, but you got so turned on...
The first 10-15 minutes were a turn on, and I would have been happy if I had stopped there.
Nova,
I don't really find the idea of my husband doing that to me to be a turnoff, but I don't necessarily find it to be a turnon either. However, I have not ever tried it, and I probably would like it if I did. I have no problem swallowing after my husband ejaculates from oral. I believe it's something very intimate that should only be done with a husband and wife or long-term relationship, but I think I understand Jazz's point about it being done in porn with individuals who don't even know each other and probably have no feelings for one another at all---normally it's portrayed in a reproachful manner in adult films as well. The way something is presented can make it look bad, you know?---but there are some acts where the presentation doesn't matter, it's just bad all the way around. Hardcore/modern porn is where I find the act to be degrading, but in a loving relationship, I don't see why it'd be bad.
Chakra
Jazz,
Now I'm totally curious. I wouldn't have a problem going down on my wife after I've cum in her vagina or anus but somehow I don't think I'm imagining it quite the way you saw it.
>>>Where is the sexuality and just like you said, what kind of impression is to our younger generation? This is where they learn it all, because parents never have that discussion with them. In fact, do any parents talk about sex with there teenagers? <<<
The only sex ed I got from my family were relatives molesting me.
felching=cream pie from the anus=just a little bit too much for Chakra but "creampie" eating (from the vagina) might be in the plans for my husband and I if he ever wants to try it--I won't totally rule it out.
Chakra
Chakra,
I agree with you that the way most things are presented in porn can make them seem totally undesirable. I don't find these things a particular turn on either especially in porn but if my DW performed oral on me after I had been in her anus or if she asked me to go down on her after I/C I'm sure I would find it very erotice in the heat of the moment between us.
Talbed,
Weren't the 90's films (early and mid) just great? I totally agree with you. They had the best of the 70's and 80's love-making techniques but with a modern flair that eliminated some of the cheesiness, lol. The 90's also introduced the era of the Brazilian waxes, and shaved vulvas. I like both ways of displaying the nether regions--sometimes I feel natural, other times I want it all off, just depends on my mood, but I like the progression I've seen over the years in adult the films (okay I know I got off topic). Anyway, I still like watching some 70's and 80's material, but the 90's rocked for sure.
Chakra
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