I think porn is disgusting

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I think porn is disgusting
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Mon, 11-13-2006 - 11:54am

But mostly, it's just boring and stupid.


One of the benefits of high speed internet is now I can watch porn videos online.

 

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Registered: 08-11-2006
Wed, 11-15-2006 - 4:14pm

I'll just tack my two cents on the end here. Agree with the degrading crap, can't stand to see a guy grab the back of a womans head and SHOVE her face down on him (GAG, literally), the just beating on the women is a turn off to, some gentle spanking is O.K., does nothing really for me, just doesn't make things go limp like those first two.

I have found myself prefering the movies with a story line also and DW mentioned Candida Royale last night and led to an interesting exchange....after reading this whole thread I think I would like some of her movies. As to the early to mid '90's, I didn't know the exact time frame, but I knew there was a certain "generation" of porn movies that were just sooooo hot. Like someone else said, a "little" more of the romance and story line of the 70's without the cheesiness and of course the shaved and trimmed vulva and genitals. You get much past that and it get's boring. Also more natural body parts in that era of movies....there is a rap song from I think the late 90's called "Baby got Back" and one of the lines goes something like "silicone is for toys" LOL....every time I hear that line I LMAO, because that is how I feel. It is also one of the few rap songs ABOUT women that isn't degrading....it is about the women being natural and "healthy"....another line says "36 - 24 - 36, only if shes 5' 3""....LMAO at that one too. Hope I didn't offend anyone there, but MHO.

Anyway, back to the thread, I have started to see more movies with a story line and actual "romance" and OMG, the guy actually left his clothes on and performed oral until the girl "orgasmed" (wasn't the big production either, looked pretty real and natural) and then the sex wasn't just pounding. Alot of these modern videos, if you watch, the producer cuts and pastes about three times....the actual sex is probably 2 to 5 minutes long and it gets stretched to 20 min. To echo everyone else, I feel sorry for anyone trying to copy that and feeling inadequate when they can't.

I myself am wishing I could find videos of women masturbating WITHOUT a MALE director telling them what to do, just a woman playing with herself to pleasure herself. I am REAL leery of P2P's though and I doubt if there are any commercial videos out there like that. One can hope though.

This is getting long so I will post it before it gets longer,
tk

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Registered: 04-05-2003
Tue, 11-21-2006 - 1:06pm
It's not rocket science. I have Ares, and I just search key words like . Certain "authors" are better. It's not hard to figure out how to search for what tickles your fancy.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 11-21-2006 - 1:46pm
Well said. I only differ at the older porn choices as I feel that any porn is fornication. No porn is brought into my home EVER. Of course, I know DH sometimes watches what he can on cables "On Demand", but he thinks he's getting over!


Edited 11/21/2006 2:11 pm ET by danidi
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Tue, 11-21-2006 - 1:58pm
Not an urge that I've ever had!
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Registered: 06-02-2006
Tue, 11-21-2006 - 2:07pm

Me neitherrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jim

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Wed, 11-22-2006 - 10:33am
Porn is almost always terrible to watch because of the relative insensitivity and ignorance of its makers--are they Mafia types? I don't know. I don't like 99% of that I've seen. These people cannot imagine themselves into the minds of people like me, but then why should they bother to try? It would probably cost them money. Porn I would like would involve tenderness and affection and plenty of interesting talk and well-thought out views of the people in them--to show them off to best advantage! You know the kind of talk I mean! Real loving talk, interesting talk, or dirty talk but interesting. I've actually seen just three porn videos that were very exciting-- in the first, the people were intelligent, liked exciting one another--slowly--seemed like they really desired one another, and talked that way, and were very good-looking and were not working for some scuzzball. I think they knew each other--maybe they loved each other in real life. The camera work showed the woman's luscious figure and the man wanting her and their talk. I have seen just one spanking movie that I enjoyed. A wonderful lesbian couple who obviously were involved and the submissive one so beautiful with a wonderful bottom who had orgasms and kissed her loving partner who did not treat her meanly at all but kissed her and played with her breasts and spanked her very very hard and then treated her with a nice toy and harness. Lastly, I've seen one shemale film that was pleasurable. The woman was very pretty and voluptuous, with wonderful breasts and waistline and rear--didn't look at all like a man, and had genitals of both sexes. Don't ask me how it was done--her operation--but she didn't seem to have male noogies and was capable of a wonderful erection. It gave me startling fantasies!! Her boyfriend did a wonderful job of showing her body off for the camera and it was very exciting to watch as he did her and then entered another woman and the shemale did both her boyfriend and the woman in the sexiest sweetest scenes imaginable. Wow. It's probably the crass commercialization of porn that makes it awful.
Cunégonde
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Wed, 11-22-2006 - 1:54pm

>Whatever the definition, it's gross and it's not something I want to see in porn OR >something I want to talk about on the board.

Hmmm so is this act too Taboo for Taboos? I thought the purpose of this board was to foster the exchange of sexual ideas without passing judgment.

I have been reading this board for many years. Seen it go through at least 3 technical migrations. During the years I've read lots of taboo things on this board all kinds of fetishes.

Why the hangup on feltching?

DMAM

Where there's marriage without love, there will be love without marriage. Benjamin Franklin
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Registered: 04-02-2004
Wed, 11-22-2006 - 2:27pm

Maybe I'm weird but I love porn -- the dirtier the better. ATM, throatjob, bukkake, all of it. I'll take a good anal feltch over some cheesy "erotic" video any day.

Don't judge. It's a free country. Some people like comedies, others like watching people screw.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Wed, 11-22-2006 - 3:32pm

>>>>Whatever the definition, it's gross and it's not something I want to see in porn OR >something I want to talk about on the board. <<<


Although you addressed your comment to someone else, I think I'm the one who said that.

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Registered: 12-03-2002
Wed, 11-22-2006 - 5:38pm

>Even though this is the Taboos board, we have limits about what we're allowed to discuss >because we're supposed to keep it PG-13 and not R or X-rated.

Are you kidding me? This board has been beyond PG-13 since it first came on the net. I don’t know anything PG-13 about anal play, cream-pies threesomes and strap-ons. If there is I sure missed out on a lot of stuff during those years.

>The powers that be made the distinction that if we talk in detail about bodily fluids >we've entered R or X-rated territory and they delete the posts.
Does spit and saliva count? Have the powers that be ever read Cosmo or Redbook? They can get into some sexual details there.

I don’t think we need to get into a very detail explanation of anything. To me the idea is that we are all adults and can have an adult conversation regarding sex and sexual practices with out being graphic or offensive. I don’t think I have ever seen anyone drop the F bomb here, so I missed your point. The board seems to behave well.
I agree that some of what you could have described would not have been desirable to me, but had you chosen to post it I could have easily hit the next button and not continued reading. Those that wanted to could have had a discussion as they have in the past about creampies without getting into the graphic details. If one asked what a creampie is they could be advised to google it.

My apologies and no insult intended but,
>Whatever the definition, it's gross and it's not something I want to see in porn
So don’t.
>OR something I want to talk about on the board.
Maybe others do. I think you can dictate how things are discussed but not what can be discussed, especially when it comes to Taboos.(barring acts that that are illegal)

The CL chair has a heavy crown you wear. I know your duties include stirring things up for dialoge. (helps the traffic) But don’t stir up the pots and then throw everyone out of the kitchen. As long as the dialogue is maintained in a manner that is not vulgar then the "powers that be" should not have a problem with it. They get a lot of quality traffic at this site and I am sure advertising is starting to pay off.

Enjoy your time off and Holiday!
DMAM

Where there's marriage without love, there will be love without marriage. Benjamin Franklin

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