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I want your opinions; or rather need.
| Mon, 08-07-2006 - 2:52pm |
One of my lovers asked me how he could access iVillage. It's a large site, so if left to his own devices he might never stumble across things that I posted. I know I don't mind him seeing what I've posted, I may even want him to see it. But for some reason I am hesitant of just straight forwardly directing him to the sites I frequent.
What do you guys think? Would you want to read all about your lover, or would you like to learn about him or her on your own gradually? Will it take the fun out of a new relationship to have all the cards laid on the table up front? Or does it get the business out of the way and make way for the fun times?
Anyone, have an opinion?

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That makes sense. However it doesn't answer any part of my question. Put yourself in my shoes, what would you do?
How nice is it by you today? It's perfect weather here. And wireless enables me to stay connected while basking in the sun. Only wish I was at the shore like Deja has been.
I would guide him here.
It's cloudy here. More sun and very humid when I was outside for lunch.
FYI-My family is at the shore today-NJ.
ooooooooooo, you're all alone. Is it a case of when the cat's away the mouse will play?
Morse, whether he reads the words you wrote, and hears them from your mouth, it is YOU he is hearing from. Written or oral, it is coming your your heart and mind. If you aren't reticent to have him read anythign you've written, then I would direct him here and let him find out on his own.
Yeah, my friend up there left me a text message about the holiday, but I haven't a clue as to what the holiday is. Do you?
I am planning on playing tomorrow. I have a tentative date for lunch tomorrow. I hope I didn't scare him off with the little Laura Corn e-card and iTease I sent him this morning. They were incredible hot!
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What do you guys think? Well, is what you have to loose greater than what you have to gain?
Would you want to read all about your lover, or would you like to learn about him or her on your own gradually? Perhaps a little of both would be more exciting.
Will it take the fun out of a new relationship to have all the cards laid on the table up front? I'd say no b/c I doubt all of the cards would ever be laid out on the table up front.
Or does it get the business out of the way and make way for the fun times? That I cannot answer.
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