I want your opinions; or rather need.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2004
I want your opinions; or rather need.
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Mon, 08-07-2006 - 2:52pm

One of my lovers asked me how he could access iVillage. It's a large site, so if left to his own devices he might never stumble across things that I posted. I know I don't mind him seeing what I've posted, I may even want him to see it. But for some reason I am hesitant of just straight forwardly directing him to the sites I frequent.

What do you guys think? Would you want to read all about your lover, or would you like to learn about him or her on your own gradually? Will it take the fun out of a new relationship to have all the cards laid on the table up front? Or does it get the business out of the way and make way for the fun times?

Anyone, have an opinion?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 08-08-2006 - 4:45pm

Nice to see you back, Morse.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2004
Tue, 08-08-2006 - 5:15pm

I'm not usually a very indecisive person, but today I have changed my mind any number of times. In the end, I did not lead him here today. My reason is nothing that we have touched upon. In the course of e-mailing and IMing him today I found myself having to re-explain certain things to him.

I don't want to be explaining all of my posts to him.

The second reason is the one you mentioned (sort of). This is my place and if I want to rant or vent, if I want to flirt, if I want to speak in hyperbole, then, this is the place for me to do it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2002
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 12:40am

Hi morse,


I had a bad experience with SO going through the Taboos board a few months back and finding stuff about my sexual past that had nothing to do with him.

 


 


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 12:52am

I just had to add that I got back from 5 days on the East coast sans kids-very relaxing and I was rather lazy today.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:01am
It has been a year already?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:14am

Don't direct him to your safe haven.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 3:19pm
Sometimes we post things here that are pretty graphic. If he would not mind knowing you loved oral sex given to you by your former lover, then sure go for it..lol


Edited 8/9/2006 3:21 pm ET by humpdaddy
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 4:27pm


I LOVE YOUR SUN BATHER SIGGY, CAN I RUB ON THE LOTION??

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2002
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 6:25pm
Sure!

 


 


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 7:33pm

>>>Sure! Rub it in good, because I burn easily. So don't miss any spots either ;-) lol.<<<

Oh this is going to be sooo much fun!!!!!