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I want your opinions; or rather need.
| Mon, 08-07-2006 - 2:52pm |
One of my lovers asked me how he could access iVillage. It's a large site, so if left to his own devices he might never stumble across things that I posted. I know I don't mind him seeing what I've posted, I may even want him to see it. But for some reason I am hesitant of just straight forwardly directing him to the sites I frequent.
What do you guys think? Would you want to read all about your lover, or would you like to learn about him or her on your own gradually? Will it take the fun out of a new relationship to have all the cards laid on the table up front? Or does it get the business out of the way and make way for the fun times?
Anyone, have an opinion?

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I've had one old friend and my husband find "my" boards, and I didn't like it at all. It's not that I'm hiding anythign, but this is MY place to vent and/or parade around... I don't want my worlds to collide like that. My husband doesn't check the boards anymore, out of respect.
My girlfriend, however, is my co=-cl, so she knew all sorts of shinola about me before we ever met. :-P
"Confusing monogamy with morality has done more to destroy the conscience of the human race than any other error."
-George Bernard Shaw
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