I Would Have Done A Threesome Years Ago

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I Would Have Done A Threesome Years Ago
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Thu, 06-15-2006 - 11:01pm

I am older but forget it. That is a number only. The other day I saw a survey somewhere on the village of asking women if they would like or have a lesbian affair meaning in a threesome which to me is the meaning of an affair.

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Registered: 03-17-2006
Sat, 06-17-2006 - 7:22pm
HELL YEAH YOU ARE!!!!
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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 7:26pm


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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 7:35pm

Well LM, I don't have a clue what you look like, but based on what I do know about you, you seem really sexy to me! ;).

 


 


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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 7:56pm

Jazz,

Everyone that has replied to my original post has missed my point. I may have worded it poorly in the first place, but certainly have been clear since then. I was not concerned about any particular woman. I was concerned about a societal issue that is far bigger than the siggies here.

I happened to be here when someone voiced a comment that indicated a self-esteem issues and outright said that issue was one factor preventing her from enjoying an activity. I therefore used two examples (one being the siggies of glam girls) I was sure would be of a common frame of reference, as I do not know her or what her knowledge base is.




Edited 6/17/2006 8:27 pm ET by morsegal
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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 8:09pm

At worst, morse said something contraversial. If I had decades, I'd scan to you the volumes of research I have read in professional journals over the past 30 years. My opinions are not based upon internal feelings (hey, I'd love it if we could all do what we want without thinking of the ramifications) but rather scientific research (and yeah, I know there is research to the contrary).

I was taking a writing course and fellow students were having a difficult time with my use of sarcasm. I was ready to eliminate it from my compositions, but instead asked the instructor for advice on altering it so the masses would understand it. He told me not to change, but to let it find its audience. I think of his words now because obviously my words reached the wrong audience.

Or did they...?

We must remember we are not the only readers here. A small handful of us have posted today, but we've had over 1000 views.




Edited 6/17/2006 8:31 pm ET by morsegal
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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 8:20pm

Caroline,

If anything, I saw you as a victim of societal pressures for sexy women to look like very few of us did even in our early twenties. I was certainly not bashing you. I thank the others for posting that in my absence.

I like your siggie, women helping women is an important concept. I tried to point out in my original post that the women here are wonderful and need only be themselves. But apparently one part of my message got all the attention.

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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 8:37pm

I think you made the mistake of making your comments on a board where several members have psychological problems you don't understand and glamour girl siggies, and being naive enough to think you wouldn't cop flak for it.

 


 


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Registered: 10-14-2003
Sat, 06-17-2006 - 10:37pm
Nevermind.


Edited 6/17/2006 11:07 pm ET by naughtygirl23

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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 11:42pm

Where to begin? Can I plead the fifth, or say "no habla inglese", or in this day and age of computer piracy can I say Krn tied me up and took over my computer today?

1- I never said the siggies were a sign of poor self esteem. I said that people that already struggle with issues are particular targets for the effects of such a practice.

2- I never said anyone was hiding medical/psychiatric conditions. In fact, I specifically noted that many members openly admitted such. For the record, when I referred to members hiding behind siggies I was referring to our physiques. Many (not all) members pretend to be fantasy gals in their dealings here. Don't you think it would be more satisfying and better for someones self-esteem if she felt open enough to represent herself as she is, not as she feels society thinks is beautiful.

3- We're not irrational people who are harming ourselves by striving in vain to meet unnatural standards, thus feeding our mental illness." Okay, but the larger picture is statistically that it is harming us, and that is my point. Look not at each individual, look at the general population of girls and women.

4- "if I see a pin-up pic that features a woman that I think is lovely and I use that image to show how sexy and gorgeous I feel, THAT is NOT an unhealthy thing." If sexy is a state of mind, then a frumpy mother of two that breast fed both children will use a picture like her image if she really believes sexy is a state of mind. (And to all those that mentioned privacy as an issue, it goes without saying that you should not use your own pic, rather one similar to your image.)

5- Sorry you considered yourself smacked around on the genetics issue. I simply saw it as supplying some scientific details, I thought I did it without any bias attached.

6- No one should have felt offended by what I said today.

7- You're right, bygones will hopefully be bygones. I've taken my share of raking over the coals for my beliefs, values, actions, and thoughts expressed in posts over the past two year (here and on other iVillage boards as well).

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Registered: 05-09-2004
Sun, 06-18-2006 - 12:00am

To all,

The irony I always face here on the boards when I make a hard to accept, or unpopular comment is that all that warm fuzzy loving friendship disappears. And all my friends that espouse openness and the ability to feel free to express oneself here, well, it just seems to go away.

There were a lot of personal remarks made today, there was a lot of finger pointing, and none of it was by me. Not once did anyone think (actually one in particular did have a tone of restraint) that their comments to me were personal attacks.

To X,

I don't mind copping a little flack when the issue is important. If I didn't care enough I would have said "whatever" at about dawn this morning.

May tomorrow bring lighter subjects!!