If you watch porn with your SO...

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If you watch porn with your SO...
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Tue, 06-06-2006 - 12:40pm
who suggested it first?


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Wed, 06-07-2006 - 9:51am
Oh, I so miss the days when they used to show porn flicks in straight theaters and, sometimes, even in college lecture halls. Back then, women felt free to invite men they'd never even slept with to such things, and in the big group experience, everyone would laugh at the stupidity of what they were watching, towering larger than life in front of them, even as they were getting turned on, if only a little. Viewing it alone or with a partner in the privacy of your own home isn't nearly as much fun. :)
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Wed, 06-07-2006 - 1:07pm

DW first suggested it years ago. I was a bit reluctant at the time, but now I'm more into it and almost always the initiator. In fact, now I wish she would want to watch them more than every 6-8 weeks like we do now. I usually pick the titles, but she often lays down the parameters (plus, I pretty much know what she's into). She's fairly particular. Just enough plot to keep it interesting -- even something a bit on the cheesy side for a couple of laughs. Not too much plot or too serious though, porn films shouldn't try to be something they're not. We both prefer stuff raunchier than the typical "couples" flick. None of that soft light, one-on-one stuff set to smooth jazz that you can barely see the penetration. Puts both of us to sleep. Group sex is always good (light on the girl-girl though)

We're actually open to suggestions--anyone have any?

We rarely make it through the entire flick -- either because we get too hot and jump each other or because the movie is too tame or slow that it puts us to sleep. Wow, I'm actually make porn sound complicated......

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Registered: 05-18-2006
Wed, 06-07-2006 - 6:47pm

>>What themes does he usually pick for you?<<

I swear, the guy at the video store knows more about our sex lifes than anyone. He'll say "Hey, you want to see a MMF movie tonight? It has FFM also and I know you like that."

LMAO!!

Or he'll mention that he and his wife liked a movie and for us to check it out.

He and his wife were trying to conceive and on all these shots to get prego for 6 years. So, I'm sure he's seen all the movies at least once.

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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 12:31am
We could use a guy like that. Our video store just has the "pervert section" in back that's separated by a curtain and all the old guys slink back there after looking around the store shiftily first. We need a consultant like that! I just rented one tonight that put us to sleep!
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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 1:11am

I suggest, he picks the title usually, if we see the end of the film it's because we came fast during the middle of the film.

And bonus answer to a question not asked.... There was one film that we were at each other before the opening credits were finished.

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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 1:16am
Then you have the wrong partners to be viewing with.
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Registered: 05-18-2006
Sat, 06-17-2006 - 8:29pm
Put you to sleep? Oh nooooooo, that's not good. We use to judge by the cover but, WOW those were deceiving!!
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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 10:30pm

I had no clue porn was suppose to have plots?!?!?!?


We just watch the compilation porn-where it is just sex scene after sex scene-no plot.

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Sun, 06-18-2006 - 5:10am
We always watch porn during all our sex. Just thought I would suggest some titles. Our favorite studios are Adam and Eve, Wicked and Private. Adam and Eve-Forbidden Lust, Group Sex series, Sex Across America series. Wicked-Wicked Sex Party series, Double Dippin. Private-Cum Guns, DP'S and Orgies, Orgies. We like compilations that are all sex. My DW loves cum shots and group sex DVD'S. I like them all especially DP. We love having intercourse while watching sex on the DVD. Don't last very long, however.
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Sun, 06-18-2006 - 9:52am
I guess "plot" is an overstatement. "Scenarious" combined with dialogue is a better description. Enough to make the sex seem more realistic. The flicks that actually try to have full "plots" are usually lame -- the worst of both worlds: bad acting and directing, and lame sex.....