Im new here

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Registered: 01-11-2007
Im new here
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Thu, 01-11-2007 - 11:57am
Just wanted to say hi, and after reading these boards for a while its nice to know I am not the only one who has taboo thoughts and desires. Mine are a little more out there but this has helped me feel better about me. Thanks.

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Registered: 12-25-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:46pm

Kirjen,

This is a group of the most accepting, supportive people I've ever been in. Thank you for e-mailing me and I hope it does work. I'm at work right now and we can't check personal e-mails from our computers, but I will definitely check it tonight and get back in touch with you. It's wonderful that you found this place - I can't think of a better outlet for you to begin to tell your story. The first step is always the hardest.

Take care -

Moonlight











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Registered: 08-23-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:47pm
well there are a lot of things that you know are wrong but still arouse you. i think the relationship with your mother is more important.
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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:48pm

txknight said:

"ROFLMAO!!!! Yeah well, it wasn't such a turnon either when DS turned on the sprinkler (heck, sprinkler, it was more like a fountain) one day whilst I was changing his diaper and didn't get the new one on fast enough. LOL."

LAFFS... I was thinking of the same thing... I didnt realize that my DS could have such water pressure... he got me good... My Mom told me, 'thats why you lay a towel over a baby boy when you change him...' learning curves are hell!

jim

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2007
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:50pm
Also, it was one of the most satisfying sexual experiences I have had to date, and I want to do it again but society says it is wrong.
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Registered: 12-28-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:50pm

Sorry 'bout that...I had to actually work...lol. That most certainly is a stressful situation to be in. Of course, a lot would depend on how close of a relationship you & your mom have always had and how much you are willing to let this affect you two. Is this something that you enjoyed? I can imagine how awkward it must be. Was this your first FF encounter? If so, that might be even more confusing. Feeling conflicted & embarrassed would be normal, so I think your reactions are right on target. What do you plan on doing now? It's been a couple weeks...how has it been since then?

~Dutchess

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:52pm
It's ok to get aroused. But I need to ask. Is it the thoughts of what happened or who it was with? I also need to ask: how old are you? do you live at home? are you sexually active?



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Registered: 06-23-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:52pm

Whew....I leave for a couple of hours and the board blows up!


First and foremost - welcome to the board! I've managed to run threw these posts, and my advice is to just take some time.

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:53pm

kirjen said:

"I notice a lot of people who were responding in here haven't now, and that was what I was expecting."

PLEASE dont read anything into that! Many of us posted at lunch time, and are now back at work... I'm lucky in that when I'm not in class, its my time for the most part.

I think we all can understand your feeling confused and conflicted... I think we all have at times in our lives... we are here for you...

jim

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Registered: 01-11-2007
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:53pm

Dutchess,

It was my first full FF encounter, I had played some with a friend of mine before. I did enjoy it, very much, which makes this all the more confusing. My Mom and I have always been close but things have been a bit awkward since it happened.

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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:54pm

moonlightnroses said:

"... life happens ..."

And it does... you are ok...

jim

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