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Registered: 01-11-2007
Im new here
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Thu, 01-11-2007 - 11:57am
Just wanted to say hi, and after reading these boards for a while its nice to know I am not the only one who has taboo thoughts and desires. Mine are a little more out there but this has helped me feel better about me. Thanks.

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Registered: 10-13-2005
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:54pm
I hope you don't mind me asking but is your mom married or is it just the two of you? Is it maybe just loneliness and wine that might have led to this encounter?
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Registered: 01-11-2007
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:56pm
I think it is a little bit of both, who and what. I am 22 , asenior in college and I do not live at home but my school is only 45 mins away. Yes I have been sexually active.
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Registered: 01-11-2007
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:57pm
I want to apologize to everyone for my comment about not replying, you have all been really great and you have no idea how much I appreciate your advice and support.
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Registered: 01-11-2007
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:59pm
Dad is still around but he travels a lot for work, like 3 weeks out of every month. She told me she has been really horny for a while now.
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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 3:59pm

I haven't gone anywhere, just trying to keep up with the hi-jack post and not sure what I could add here. I have an approach to life that is viewed as not right by society either....I feel like if it is between two consenting adults and no one is getting hurt, what is wrong with it? Did your mom enjoy it too? Who knows, she may be sitting there thinking some of the same things, such as she was very satisfied and everytime she thinks about it she gets aroused.

Is your mother still married to your father or another man? Is she going to be concerned about feeling like it is cheating? You will need to find these things out. I agree with sdino, you ought to sit down and type up an e-mail and say/ask what you want to and re-read it ohhhh 8 or 9 times and make sure it says exactly what you want it to say. I myself have used this approach with DW several times as it allows both of us time to read and re-read and hopefully think of all the shadings and nuances of what we wrote and make sure we don't stir up too much negative emotions, yet get our feelings on the table.

Good luck and don't worry about this bunch....most of us are probably waiting for the salicious details when you feel comfortable enough to post....if not we'll be fine, but our imaginations will fill in the details anyway. LOL

tk

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Registered: 01-11-2007
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:05pm
OK the details are that we were trying on some underwear and making funny sexual comments, and then we seemed to end up in each others arms. There was a really awkward moment of staring into each others eyes , and then we kissed. The kissing became passionate and we fell onto the bed, and we continued to kiss and then to touch each other. Then she kissed down my body and went down on me, and then after I had 2 orgasms,I did the same for her.
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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:13pm

Not sure how to say this, but from a sexual perspective sounds like a good time was had by all. LOL.

Now, more seriously, you need to sit down and talk/e-mail about this with your mom. Like I said, she may be feeling the same way (in every way, unsure, how did this happen, but it felt good, do I want that to happen again, but she's my daughter, but BOY did that feel GOOD), ya just don't know unless you talk to her. If this needs to be a one time deal and the both of you never repeat, you need to find that out to....but she is your mom and THAT relationship is more important and that is why you two need to figure out what is what.

That being said, newbs was right in that if you need to take some time take, but don't let it go too long or this will just fester and when your father gets back from a trip (I assume he is on one) it could get more awkward.

tk

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Registered: 12-28-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:16pm

Well, depending on how old you are & how much experience you have sexually it can be VERY easy to get confused. You may have liked the act and not so much the fact that it was with your mom. Everyone experiments sexually to figure out what they prefer. You may be straight, lesbian or bi. I think you need to really think about what exactly in this situation was *good* for you. My guess would be that it was the daringness of the act & probably the physical arousal. These things can be duplicated with other partners so hope is NOT lost. It'll be ok.

~Dutchess

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Registered: 01-11-2007
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:18pm
Thanks Tx, and I know your right it is just initiating that conversation. And if she is thinking the same way I am, I think it will happen again.
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Registered: 08-11-2006
In reply to: kirjen
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:33pm

If she if feeling the same way and you are both are comfortable repeating, my feeling is go for it....BUT if she is NOT feeling the same way, don't lose sight of the fact that she is your mom and, like I said, THAT relationship is more important than anything and as another poster stated, this satisfaction CAN be replicated with another person.

Good luck again and keep us posted. I gotta run myself, don't think I will get back tonight, but should be here tomorrow.

tk

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