I'm so intrigued by older men.......BAD!

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Registered: 05-03-2006
I'm so intrigued by older men.......BAD!
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Thu, 07-20-2006 - 2:44pm

My bf and I are young. I've only been with him, he's the only one I want to be with. I just can't shake the fantasy I have for older men. Older men to me are in their 30's... 30 somethings are SOOOOO sexy to me. Even 30 something women. I'm constantly day dreaming and fantasizing about sex with older men. AHHHHHH............. don't get me wrong, I love my bf! and we have ALOT of fun. He does some crazy things to me that drive me nuts, but nothin beats a 32 year old business man stripping down, neck tie first..........

So ladies, PLEASE! share your experiences with older men
And gents, PLEASE share yours with young women!

I look forward to the responses! =D

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Registered: 06-23-2006
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:02pm
Yeah -- figured as much!

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:09pm
well don't you worry...I will be gone all next week for work related issues, so you can put away that ruler, unfold your arms and stop tapping your foot! LOL!
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Registered: 06-23-2006
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:16pm

Ruler? Bwa-hahahaha!!!! You've seen my Louisville Slugger, right? I have several, and one with my name on it too. So, you can see that I don't mess with

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:57pm

NOT bad! I can see the age-gap attraction. I guess if it's just a sexual thing, it doesn't matter all that much. But the priority with me has always been relating on a physical, emotional and intellectual level even in something very short-term. Guys my age (mid forties) vary widely on this, but like most people, I think the majority are attracted to someone within 5-10 years of their age.

Thus far my widest age gaps with younger girlfriends have been 32/28, 40/36 and 46/38.

A mature woman in her late 20s through 30s, however, would appeal to me much more than an immature woman closer to my age.

I will admit that it's a nice ego boost to get a telling glance from a 20- or young 30-something. But I think it has as much if not more to do with attitude as it does with age.

At 47 I'm still a bachelor without children. But I certainly haven't ruled out marriage and children in the future. And in my middle age it's always somewhat comforting to see the 'older' husband and father pushing a stroller along with his wife. Sometimes it's a much younger woman, and sometimes it's a woman his age who's had a baby late in life or adopted one.

I'd love to see the 'age issue' dissipate as time goes on--for both sexes. I think it's very limiting and unnecessarily culturally restrictive, in much the same way other taboos are ignorantly looked down upon. It does look like things are changing for the better, slowly but surely.

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Registered: 04-06-2006
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 3:54pm
I think I need to make it perfectly clear that I don't get propositioned that often...not that I'm ugly or a dork or anything. The reality is that most people more or less recognize the standard boundries of appropriate behavior, and my personal effect is of the ultimate tight a__ed white guy, so the pretty young things aren't falling all over me. Our University is a pretty nerdy school, too, lot's of 1350+ SAT scores, a terrible football team, etc. Not that we don't have attractive young women in our programs, but they're a pretty serious lot.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 4:29pm
The nerdy schools are where the hot men are!!! My god, a nerdy guy does it for me every time!!! lol
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 4:47pm

I married a tight assed white guy, so you know I find them sexy.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2004
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 5:00pm
Well thank goodness people still stand by their ethics/values/morals.
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Registered: 06-24-2006
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 5:23pm
I have one thats better...a man in a uniform..thats sexy

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 7:07pm

Deja DYK that your legs in that new siggie are damn long compared to the rest of you? LOL.


Cool siggie though :).