I've found some wonderful playmates on Ashley. I found the key was to have a very explicit profile, not graphic, just state exactly what you're looking for and what you're not.
Our experience with AFF was a bit traumatic. The public can view the pictures posted. Which, you guessed it, resulted in quite a fervor when family members “stumbled” across our posted pictures. Thank heavens they were only G-Rated pictures, but it was still an episode not worthy of repeating! We thought only other members could view pictures and view profiles…w r o n g! Money isn’t made, and membership rolls are not expanded that way, so AFF lets any who come to their site take a peak. They peaked at us! OOPs
That being said, we were lucky enough to find a compatible couple for play before all H E _ _ broke loose. In an ideal world, AFF is ideal...but where is that?
I'm female, 41, married forever to a wonderful man who is a great father and husband, but is quite content with sex once every 2 or 3 months. So, after years of that, and trying everything I could think of to interest him, I just resigned myself to his lack of interest and decided to look elsewhere for a physical playmate. I was very direct and honest in my profile, that I had no interest in an emotional affair, nor was I seeking a Sugar-Daddy or demanding affair.......just a great playmate. And eventually, that's what I found. My first was wonderful while it lasted, but while we had always agreed that it was what it was and would never be more, he announced that it had become more to him and he would be leaving his wife so that we could have more time together. That was my cue to leave, and I did. I chatted with many and met with a couple, drinks only, until I found my current one. We only contact each other when the need and time arises and enjoy a wonderful afternoon in a hotel 2 hours away from each of our homes, his is also two hours from mine. And that's it, he is a wonderful, passionate married business-owner who is also married to a low-libido woman who otherwise is a great wife. I know it sounds as callous as hell, but there you have it. My constant rejection at home here was turning me into someone I didn't like, so I found a solution. Feel free to ask anything you wish, but please, to all who reads this, refrain from judging or trying to reform me.....I'm a grown, educated, worldly woman, I know it's wrong to most, I know it won't fix my marriage, I know I'll probably burn in hell for it, but let me worry about that, thanks.
I hope we/I don't get any judgemental posts here too. It's not like this is the Celibate Living Board or a religious based one......and everyone has skeletons!
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Our experience with AFF was a bit traumatic. The public can view the pictures posted. Which, you guessed it, resulted in quite a fervor when family members “stumbled” across our posted pictures. Thank heavens they were only G-Rated pictures, but it was still an episode not worthy of repeating! We thought only other members could view pictures and view profiles…w r o n g! Money isn’t made, and membership rolls are not expanded that way, so AFF lets any who come to their site take a peak. They peaked at us! OOPs
That being said, we were lucky enough to find a compatible couple for play before all H E _ _ broke loose. In an ideal world, AFF is ideal...but where is that?
Just our experience.
I was very direct and honest in my profile, that I had no interest in an emotional affair, nor was I seeking a Sugar-Daddy or demanding affair.......just a great playmate. And eventually, that's what I found. My first was wonderful while it lasted, but while we had always agreed that it was what it was and would never be more, he announced that it had become more to him and he would be leaving his wife so that we could have more time together. That was my cue to leave, and I did. I chatted with many and met with a couple, drinks only, until I found my current one. We only contact each other when the need and time arises and enjoy a wonderful afternoon in a hotel 2 hours away from each of our homes, his is also two hours from mine. And that's it, he is a wonderful, passionate married business-owner who is also married to a low-libido woman who otherwise is a great wife.
I know it sounds as callous as hell, but there you have it. My constant rejection at home here was turning me into someone I didn't like, so I found a solution. Feel free to ask anything you wish, but please, to all who reads this, refrain from judging or trying to reform me.....I'm a grown, educated, worldly woman, I know it's wrong to most, I know it won't fix my marriage, I know I'll probably burn in hell for it, but let me worry about that, thanks.
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