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| Thu, 06-08-2006 - 1:20am |
Hello All,
I have been reading all of your posts with great interest for the past few weeks. And I couldn't help but wanting to get aquainted. I love the open-mindeness, caring and honesty. And mostly the eroticism!!!!
My SO and I are very sexually motivated; as most here seem to be. We have been exploring some new avenues (been together 2+ years)we have recently been doing anal and I've given her some very good spankings, she likes that!! She loves oral but I usually prefer ejaculating during IC and I haven't yet been able to ejaculate in her anally, I think because she is so tight. I would like to be able to release in her mouth more regularly and an anal release, I think, would turn her on a lot. I have had many lovers over the years and it has kind of always been my pattern to be motivated to C in their P.
Any advice for changing this pattern?
My other ? is this, she is very very hot sexually but has a hard time, being verbal during our love making; as far as what she wants etc., although she has verbalized that she is open to whatever I want to do. How do I get her to talk more about this?
I have had MMF and she has had FFM, she isn't open to that at this time, although I am. I do know that she is open to more experimenting. Do I just take matters into my own hands and expose her to some different things. I bought a Feeldoe and used it on her, as a dildo, but we didn't have a chance for her to try to use it on me, we were too busy doing other things to each other. We had discussed my buying this and she approved and doesn't seem to mind the idea of using it on me.
Just looking for any ideas to get the ball rolling.
Thanks in advance for your thoughts and time,
Jack

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"I would like to talk to her about this but she hasn't been able to be specific up to this point.
I think maybe she wants me to take the lead?"
It sounds like she's very passive and wants you to lead.
We don't see each other during the week so by Friday night we are ready to go.
It does make for a long week though.
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