Its Complicated.......

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Registered: 08-12-2008
Its Complicated.......
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Thu, 05-06-2010 - 12:55pm

Have you seen this movie?

It is basically a story about 2 people that were once married and been divorced for some years and they hook up after their youngest child graduates college.

He is re-married and she is not. he leaves his current wife to go back to her and she said that the relationship will not work out between them and moves on with her life.

So if you got a divorce from your current spouse; could you (after time) have an affair with them?

DH and I have had this conversation many times. If we broke up, we probably would hook up b/c we have great sex with each other; but then again we have only had each other so we might be losers in bed with other people and so we might as well stay together.

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Thu, 05-06-2010 - 1:38pm
If Master and I ever divorced I would be so hurt and so heartbroken by it that I would never want to see Him again. Hooking up with Him to have sex later on simply would not work for me.
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Registered: 02-02-2004
Thu, 05-06-2010 - 5:41pm
Not sure how to answer that one. Our sex is not great, and never has been, so...it wouldn't save anything.
bsG150
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Registered: 06-02-2006
Thu, 05-06-2010 - 9:01pm

Howdy... long time no see...


Hmmm... I was married and we had great sex... that devolved into not-so-great-sex... that evolved into no-sex... she tried once to have sex with me after we had been divorced for some time...


The anger and hurt that still exists from the divorce?

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Registered: 11-15-2009
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 3:13am

well as for me, as long as we werent remarried, then yeah id love to have sex with my ex-wife, since its great and we have great chemistry together, same level of experimentation, and i love hearing her moan when we're having sex, its such a turn on, so i'd probably miss that a lot as well. plus she's been my only partner, so it would be weird not having sex with her. but the more i think of it, sneaking around and having sex with an ex wife, not telling anyone, etc., is a turn on. hopefully it wont come to that

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Registered: 08-29-2008
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 3:20pm
If MK and I ever got divorced I would never have sex with her again. I would be interested in having it with a much more adventurous woman than her.
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Registered: 07-10-1999
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 5:43pm
That is actually one of my husband's sexual fantasies-that we break up, he finds somebody new, and I come along and seduce him. He says it's a big turn-on because I know what turns him on better than anybody and would know all the right buttons to push. We've actually role-played this out. In reality, though, it would never happen, at least not while he was with somebody else, as we both have strong opinions against any form of cheating.
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Registered: 08-12-2008
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 9:53pm

Hi Jim!

Yeah I am not around much anymore. I have a facebook farmville addiction. I am a sad creature. But in all honesty it is my stress reliever.

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Registered: 08-12-2008
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 9:54pm

how about a former lover or have you only been with your wife?

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Registered: 08-12-2008
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 9:55pm

I am sorry but that struck me as funny. I am sorry I shouldn't giggle, but the way you wrote it is funny.

So what entails adventurous for you barrister?

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Registered: 08-29-2008
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 9:57pm
Farmville? I had a juror on my last trial who admitted she was addicted to Farmville during voir dire. Believe it or not I kept her-and won the case!

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