just want to say a few things.

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just want to say a few things.
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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 8:49am
I really like this board.I read it and can get pretty horny doing so. LM, Maggie an Gracie is the hottest people I have ever read about in real life. The problem is that after reading this I go looking for the DW who is not allways receptive. I feel bad when this happens, It makes me question what Im doing. Is just sex or is it love. I leaning toward its just sex. We are not a very wild couple, no anal (but I wish we would) and its part of the reason I found this board. Its preety much just just straight stuff. I am tons more courious than she is, and that can be a problem too. Do think I should jus settle down with this or keep trying to push the limits.
The life style that is normaly presented on this board sound like greet fun, and I would love to be part of it.
We have been married for 23 years now as of May 28th, we have 3 kids. I have been tempted jus once in my marriage by someone who was a lot younger that me (11 years) and she was everything that I thought I needed at the time . But we both got smart and ran liked scared rabbits when got it to the point of acutaly doing something. She was married also and to make it worse we both worked together in the same building. It caused so much trouble that she eventualy she moved on to another job. I sorry that Im rambling on, but I jus wanted to share a bit, and seek some input about this. Im surely not the only one who has been down this road. But this is the only place that is warm enough to talk about it. This maybe the wroung place to post this and If it is the CL's can move it. Have a greet day guys and gals. rdg
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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 10:53am

well, have you had a serious talk about how you two seem to have a different libido, and you'd like to find some more common ground?



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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 11:07am
She seems pretty reluctant to just let go. She is from a strong penticostel (SP?) upbringing so Im sure that is part of it. She is also interverted (shy) and not sure about anything sexualy. Her parents were in out of marrages when she was young and did not have much help from her mother (and I use that term very loosely). What she knows about marrage and sex we have learned on our own. She is also hard to talk to about somethings. She jus clams up and wont talk. That is a source of great furstration (sp?)for me.
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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 11:25am

Rdg - I'm glad you like the board and feel welcome as well.

 

 

 

 

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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 11:33am

RDG - Thanks for the compliment and I, too, hope that you feel welcome here!


I'm going to agree with Lil'M and Newbie here.

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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 11:40am
RDG what Gracey said same thing goes for me also, I was raised Roman Catholic so I understand the getting over the feeling of what I was doing was wrong.
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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 11:44am
Thanks for the replies. I will try to gently push the subject a little more.. Now dont get me wroung with this I dont really want to do things outside my marrage, jus spice it up. It has gotten quite boring I feel I need more. Is that selfish on my part?
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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 11:49am
Is it selfish to want hot sex with your wife?


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Tue, 06-27-2006 - 11:50am
Selfish - nope! I'm always looking for ways to spice up my marriage! I drop hints here and there all the time. Nothing wrong with it at all!

 

 

 

 

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