For the ladies: what turns your head &..

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For the ladies: what turns your head &..
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Thu, 07-13-2006 - 3:46pm

what keeps you looking at a man? I've asked many female friends about this, and for some reason it is hard for them to put in to words, so I thought I'd try here. So:

1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.

2. What would make you want to get to know him better? e.g. what he is wearing, smile, eye contact etc.

Just looking for a bit of advice.

Thanks, Dan

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Registered: 03-09-2006
Thu, 07-13-2006 - 3:58pm

Afternoon, Dan!


1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.


I'll admit to giving a guy a full up and down look, but man if he has a great smile, I will definitely look twice!


2. What would make you want to get to know him better? e.g. what he is wearing, smile, eye contact etc.


This is tougher.

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Thu, 07-13-2006 - 5:38pm

1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.


Hmmm..the things I notice are smile, arms (particularly forearm muscles, lol, LOVE the way they ripple with just about anything you do), hair.

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Thu, 07-13-2006 - 6:07pm

1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.


A nice, genuine smile.

 


 


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 3:38am

1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.


A nice smile and a friendly nod.

 

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 10:02am

1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.

His smile is usually what catches my interest. I love to see people smiling. He also must appear confident... comfortable with himself.

2. What would make you want to get to know him better? e.g. what he is wearing, smile, eye contact etc.

Eye contact and a smile could make me want to get to know him. But he's got to have a great personality and sense of humor to keep my interest. And there's nothing like an intelligent man... I'm such a sucker for them.

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Registered: 01-23-2006
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 11:00am

1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.

Things that'll make me look at a man would definatley be stunning blue eyes, taller than me but not too tall, and a broad build. As others mentioned someone who is dressed with falling off pants and a "look at me" style only get a "what are you thinking" look from me. If a man passes me that I didn't notice but he smells nice I'll give a second glance.

2. What would make you want to get to know him better? e.g. what he is wearing, smile, eye contact etc.

Someone who feels comfortable talking to women, someone who doesn't try to impress me but is themselves and will let the conversation flow. If it seems he is trying to find things about themselves to impress me than I'm outta there.

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Registered: 12-19-2002
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 11:43am

What keeps you looking at a man? I've asked many female friends about this, and for some reason it is hard for them to put in to words, so I thought I'd try here. So: 1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest?


This is just first-glance, man on the street (or in a club, at the gym):

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Registered: 03-11-2006
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 4:09pm

Hey Dan, I'm married but still look. ALOT!


I have to say, I do have a certain type of guy that catches my attention and that will do it every time. Dark hair, geek glasses, retro/punk types do it for me. And I don't mind letting them know subtly that I'm noticing them. Confidence, a great smile or laugh, someone who looks like they're having fun all catch my eye.


If a guy sees me looking and gives me a slow smile or an approving look that reels me in. But not enough to get to know him. I think I'd have to be in some sort of situation where we could talk to make me stop to actually meet him. Not that I'd do anything but if I were single.

 

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Fri, 07-14-2006 - 5:00pm
ah ha, the elusive Tanya.....where ya been girl???


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Fri, 07-14-2006 - 8:36pm


1. What about a man on the street would catch your interest? e.g. he smells good, has lots of hair, etc.
- A: The first thing I notice is the way he is dressed. Then I notice how he walks, if he shows confidence, strengh. Hair, if it is well kept. His face, if it is a attractive face, if he smiles easily. I am a woman that notices, if the mans hands are clean and his shoes are also clean. In general, if he takes care of himself.

2. What would make you want to get to know him better? e.g. what he is wearing, smile, eye contact etc.
- A: If at first site I find him attractive, I smile. If he returns the smile, and there is good eye contact, It makes me want to say something and I wait for his response. Usually, I get a response and eventually a conversation will start.

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