Let's talk FE

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Let's talk FE
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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 11:00am

That's female ejaculation.



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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 11:26am
ahhhh...the Holy Grail of the Female Orgasm! I have done some reading on the topic, even got an ebook about it. There are some women that are prediposed to having them, but for the majority it requires quite a bit of effort. There is the mental side of fully allowing arousal to consume a person. There is the physical side of feeling sexuality throughout the entire body along with being able to totally release one's self (for many, the initial feelings associated with an FE is the urge to urinate and that is where many retract themselves instead of letting go). And there is the partner side (if not solo) that needs to understand what it takes to get there.
I have come very close with dw...after a very long foreplay session on a night when she was particularly 'hot', the combination of oral and finger perfectly massaging the g-spot elicited one quick squirt during orgasm. Was like the result of pulling the trigger just a bit on a squirt gun. Amazing! Have not gotten there yet, but much of that was because of the mental side of dw, and I got the impression that she squirted urine since she appeared to be embarassed. I tried to talk about it, but she shushed me quickly.
For some though...no matter how hard they try, it does not happen. This is not a bad thing...gotta applaud the effort and desire alone!
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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 4:04pm

I did it once.

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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 4:32pm
Yes, I can do it. I am not sure if it's a learned experience or not. I have read a few things on it because I was bewildered when it first started happening. If he's massaging my g-spot while giving me oral, it's almost guaranteed that I'm going to squirt. I have only squirted twice with him inside me. That was amazing. I have done it many, many times solo with a toy... more often during phone sex than any other time. I had to relax a lot mentally to let it happen and not be self conscious about it. The first couple of times I was so worried that I peed while he was going down on me, but I know now that it's not that. I always make sure to go before oral now and just relax. It's a wonderful experience.
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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 5:37pm

My S/O does this about 90% of the time and I personally love it. Sometimes it's much more than others and usually happens via the two fingers method. I use my fingers and tounge at the same time. I kind of pump her g spot with the two fingers and get ready to lap it up when she goes off. Some times it squirts out in a heavy stream and sometimes she just kind of gushes. I love it and so does she, her whole body shakes when she orgasms. She usually has multiple O's that just keep coming and coming until she is completely exhausted. Sometimes she can do this with penetration and I love the feeling of her cumming all over me and it always makes me cum at the same time.
I've honestly never been with anyone like her and I have been with more than a few.
Hope I don't sound like I'm bragging here. I'm honestly just very grateful and thought someone might read this to know that these kinds of O's are possible. I think its 90% her. I don't take credit except for being a willing participant.

Lucky Lucky Jack

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Sat, 08-12-2006 - 2:15pm

I kinda wonder how to make it happen, y'know?? I mean, I *know*...I've read probably waaaay too much about it, actually. And I consider myself pretty low stress with our sex life...I'm not hung up on it happening, I multiple O and pretty easily, at that. He's MORE than willing to keep at it, and has on many occassions, but to my knowledge, I've not FE'd. But then...we do the whole watersport thing, so even if I did FE, it'd be hidden in the golden shower. But what I do know, is that I can't give him showers without orgasming to get it going and how I describe those particular orgasms sound incredibly like what I've read about FE.

So...I don't know what I think about it. On the one hand, I totally believe all the stories I've read about it, on the other hand, I'm experiencing the same exact kinda thing and it's pee, so....what's up with that??

Color me perplexed....
Lucky

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Mon, 08-14-2006 - 5:17pm
While our sex life is very low these days (maybe once a month - not my choice) my wife seems to do it every time we make love. Usually I use my fingers to bring her off that way. Then enter her and often she will orgasm again, this time without the ejaculation. It is just odd to me that a woman who can be that sexual would not want sex more often.
It took her about 2 years after marriage to have an orgasm and about a year after that she began to do FE almost everytime we has sex.
Since I have taken a lover, I have found that it is very erotic when a woman does it as you are giving here oral.