let's talk....rimming

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let's talk....rimming
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Fri, 10-27-2006 - 10:02am
You know, we never seem to talk about rimming very much...why is that?


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Registered: 05-24-2003
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 7:29pm
I love it when my SO plays back there. Whatever he's in the mood to do, I'll take. Sometimes, he justs plays there enough to get the pad of his finger in, just a little pressure. I *love* that. Love it, love it, love it. Other times, he'll put a finger or two as far in there as he can while he has a finger or two in vaginally. When he combines that with oral attention to my clit and/or rimming.....omg...I'm his....he can ask me to do anything and I would!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 11-21-2006 - 2:24pm

Try asking your DW, what other women may like or do may just get you in the dog house for the night/week/month. When it comes to the back hole, it belongs to her and you should seek her permission and then RESPECT HER DECISION!

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Wed, 06-27-2007 - 2:47pm

Heh, sorry to bring back a seemingly dead post, but I just found this one and couldn't stand the thought of a certain someone getting in the last word.

I haven't rimmed my DW but it is something I fantasize about often. I almost did when we were dating but didn't end up going through with it, though I think if I had at the time she would have let me.

Ladies, what is it that you like so much about receiving this?

Guys, what do you like so much about doing it?

I know it's a huge turn on for me. Some of my favorite pron to look at is girl on girl rimming.

DW asked me the other day what I liked so much about anal, and I really couldn't answer her. I just like it.

Anybody out there got a grasp on why it is we like this stuff so much?

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Registered: 07-20-2006
Wed, 06-27-2007 - 2:51pm
I've always loved rimming my SO's. Just love spreading the cheeks wide and having at it. What is it that is so lovable? The taboo aspect for sure, the vulnerability of her in that position, the control I exercise over her responses...I love getting too. It just feels so incredibly good...HG
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Wed, 06-27-2007 - 3:47pm

So here's another question. After rimming your SO does she let you kiss her mouth?

My DW and I recently had AS again, starting with my fingering her there to try to warm her up to penetration, and she wanted me to wear a condom, on both my finger and my member for the full deed. She is really paranoid about being dirty down there (granted she had not showered before this encounter so that is understandable).

Ladies, do you kiss your man after he has been rimming you?

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Registered: 07-20-2006
Wed, 06-27-2007 - 3:52pm
we both clean the area very well beforehand....yes, she loves it when I rim her and then kiss her deeply.
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Wed, 06-27-2007 - 10:24pm

Oh I agree...

"...Just love spreading the cheeks wide and having at it. .... The taboo aspect for sure...."

Rimming is not a separate event. If it does not lead to anal sex then it is usually followed by some serious anal-fingering. 1-2-3 fingers (still working on 4 and 5 fingers) but she goes crazy and we do kiss afterwards.

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Happy together for 20+ years....

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Registered: 06-21-2007
Thu, 06-28-2007 - 1:29am
My DH loves to rim me before anal sex and it does feel good. I believe he loves the feeling of total submission with me on all fours with my butt up in the air ready for him to do whatever pleases him. He has never asked me to rim him. Anal is not a favorite so am glad he has not!
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Registered: 08-24-2006
Thu, 06-28-2007 - 12:47pm

hmm, maybe that is what i like about it, the submissive thing. DW normally has a very, shall we say, confident personality.

Still, the fantasy is just always running around in my head. If i get up the nerve to do it some time I just hope she can relax and enjoy it.

p.s. off-topic here, anyone know how to change the email that notices go to when someone posts a response?

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Registered: 07-10-2006
Thu, 06-28-2007 - 4:18pm
I love it .. i have recently started been more into anal then anything else. Receiving and giving.. Wish i could have tried it earlier i was missing out. Have a new bf and he just lets me experiment with him. Rimming is my favorite he enojoys receiving and most of all me giving.. having him with his butt in my face and him moaning is a real turn on form me.

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