let's talk....rimming

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let's talk....rimming
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Fri, 10-27-2006 - 10:02am
You know, we never seem to talk about rimming very much...why is that?


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Registered: 06-21-2007
Thu, 06-28-2007 - 6:34pm
Uncheck the box that asks if you want to be notified before you submitt an response. I got caught being on here because of a response that ended up in my e-mail. DH was not happy! I changed my name on here and am very careful now!
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Registered: 08-24-2006
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 8:15am

nah, im not worried about being caught being on here. i just wanted the replies in a different email. i got it fixed. not sure that DW would be thrilled with me surfing this board.

though it does help with ideas for fun in the bedroom. or elsewhere ;o)

problem is figuring out how to broach the idea of me tonguing her backside with her...

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Registered: 06-29-2007
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 10:49am
my BF loves it, he makes these noises that Ive never head him make before, its such a turn on for me.
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Fri, 06-29-2007 - 11:56am

::problem is figuring out how to broach the idea of me tonguing her backside with her...

I do not see a problem - while you are going down on her, have a pillow under her butt and then start to thumb her vaginally while the other fingers and just playing lightly with her back-door... She will either let you know she likes the attention or not by how she moves...

If she gives you the sign that she loves/enjoys that attention start to put your oral focus on that sexy back-door. Before long she will be totally enjoying you rimming her while your "clean" fingers are playing with her clitoris and vagina and your "dirty" fingers are starting to "push" into her...

My SO just loves when I do that to her. She will have hold of my hair and pulling me deeper or begging me for AS and or IC to be followed by AS.

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Fri, 06-29-2007 - 12:15pm
i may have to try it out then. i will have to make sure its right after a shower though or she will definitely freak lol.
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Registered: 07-19-2007
Mon, 07-23-2007 - 2:25pm

this is a great thread. Glad to feel that I am not the only rimming lover. I have a few questions (kind of practical ones - any help appreciated).

1. Preparation: what sort of preparation does one go through before this wonderful act (i.e, washing with soap? how much time in advance does one have to do this?
Not always one gets an opportunity to do this. For example, lets say you return from a hot date, and are going about it once you return home like against the wall or on kitchen floor/couch. At the heat of the moment, how can you even bring up clean up. IN fact its so hot to just rip clothes off or remove her thong and go down on her. At this time do people rim? I just love this hot oral. This means its going to be a while since the last clean up was done. Is this ok? I love her natural odor/smell.
How do ladies feel about this (receiving and giving to a guy)?
How do guys feel about this (receiving and giving to your girl)?

2. How deep do you all go?
How deep do you girls go during giving and how deep do you want your guys to go? At some point, it turns from ass licking (rimming) to ass eating lol (I learnt that term from a porn focussed on this). I like to start with rimming, but go as deep as possible.
Do you guys/gals like just rimming or ass eating also.

3. During the heat of the moment, how can you not lick the back door and not go to the front immediately? I know the hygeine book says do mouth wash before you go front, but when I am going and driving her crazy through my oral skills, how can I break the flow and do the cleaning? Isnt that a turn off?

4. How do I solve this dilemma?

5. Gals, which position do you like (for giving and receiving) for rimming?

6. Guys, which position is the best for this (for giving and receiving)?

7. During rimming/going deep back there, has anyone used whipped cream/honey or any delicasies? is flavored massage oils/lubs recommended during rimming?

8. Hair: for gals: how do you deal with hair there when you rim your guys? Do you prefer shaved or hairy ass is ok? for girls that have hair there, do you wax/have it shaved for your guys?
for guys: do you shave back there to make it cleaner/easier for your gals?

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Registered: 05-21-2007
Tue, 07-24-2007 - 12:38am

DW and I rim each other, it is great.

1. Preparation:
For us, it always takes place after a shower.

2. How deep do you all go?
We both engage in tongue insertion.

3. During the heat of the moment, how can you not lick the back door and not go to the front immediately?
If the back is clean enough to lick\eat then it is safe enough to go back to the front which we both do.

4. How do I solve this dilemma?
Ok, missed the question.

6. Guys, which position is the best for this (for giving and receiving)?
The best way has to be either on the stomach or knees. IT allows for maximum spreading and movement.

7. During rimming/going deep back there, has anyone used whipped cream/honey or any delicacies? is flavored massage oils/lubes recommended during rimming?
No, not so far.

8. Hair:
DW does not have a hairy ass (makes me laugh just thinking about it). On the other hand, my ass has some hair which wife does not mine. But it gives her a good reason to shave me, I think she just like the idea of preparing me.

Oh, some times she uses a toy and rims me while the toy is inside. That for another topic, but all I can say is WOW.

Good luck, hope you get some!

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Happy together for 20+ years....

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Registered: 07-17-2007
Tue, 07-24-2007 - 9:44pm
LOve it, would do it whenever my girl wants or even when she least expects it.

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