Lovers, mistresses, etc
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Lovers, mistresses, etc
| Thu, 03-30-2006 - 5:31pm |
I didn't want to hijack anothers thread so I started a new one.
Reading those other posts got me wondering...Are there many of you out there (men or women) who have a lover on the side that your SO knows about? It would seem rare to me but then again, who am I to know this stuff? I have trouble just getting the wife in the sack let alone a SECOND gal! ;)
But seriously, how common is it for a couple to have a third party and both partners be OK with it?

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Well at the moment I'm neither
People who post on this board are probably more likely to have a third or fourth in their marital/SO mix. If you go to the Baptist Parenting board or one of the general parenting boards, you'll find that sort of arrangement very, very, very rare.
My DH and I share a girlfriend; she and her husband share me as a girlfriend. I'm going to see her ONE WEEK from today!!!!!
Hi All
I think that it is more common than most people think. My guy's DW encouraged our meetings and usually arranges them. She origionally set it up and herded us into the bedroom and stayed till we were both nude but she did leave before actual i/c took place. Even now she will come to my place when he comes but will not participate. She has a very low labido and his is very high. My DH I think knows but a long time ago he told me not to rub it in his face. I respect that.
kat
Interesting although I'm not sure I'd equate the low libido with the aspect of a third party as my DW has a VERY low libido but if I even mention another woman's name in conversation during dinner about 100% work-related issues, its triggers a huge raised eyebrow and ALOT of questions!
Maybe its like Naughtygirl said and its just related to the folks that post here?
So if your husband came home and said he found another gal that he wanted to take as a lover would you be OK with it?
Forgive my questions but this is totally foreign to me as my wife is not open to anything like this and I don't have any friends that are in a situation similar to yours.
Thanx
Hmmmm interesting. Thanks for the reply.
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