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Sat, 09-12-2009 - 2:28am

i am starting a new thread here on an issue which i have already posted, hope it is ok, please do give your advise here..


i am looking for some advise on the prostate stimulation, not sure whether this is the right thread, but someone mentioned it in relation to pegging so...


we have read a lot about prostate stimulation and DW has tried to do it to me.

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Registered: 04-05-2003
In reply to: indiancouple
Tue, 09-15-2009 - 3:40am

This works best for men who normally have a heavy flow of "pre-cum" but getting much more than a slight increase in that flow can require more than gentle pressure on the prostate. My first experience with this was medical to get a sample to test for prostate infection and it was more than just a little painful.

A firm (just short of painful) massage of the prostate accompanying oral sex or masturbation gives me a really intense orgasm especially if my GF stops everything but the prostate stimulation just a hair short of the point of no return and the prostate stimulation alone pushes me over the edge.

Again, it takes fairly strong massage for me so I would assume that like many other things, the "different strokes for different folks" rule applies.

Also, from your description of using cotton balls to protect from fingernails, I get the feeling that your DW is using the fingertip which may not be the best method. Spreading the pressure over as wide an area as possible definitely works best for me. You need to compress as much of the prostate as possible to get seminal fluid expression so have her use the pad(s) of her finger(s).

Poking it with a fingertip is going to get painful long before you get any results. To illustrate the point, try pressing the air out of a ziplock baggie with just a fingertip or even two.

Hope this helps.

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In reply to: indiancouple
Tue, 09-15-2009 - 5:25pm
Just popping in to say hi, GF!
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In reply to: indiancouple
Sun, 09-20-2009 - 1:45am
I just started a thread on anal regarding the same subject.
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Registered: 04-05-2003
In reply to: indiancouple
Sun, 09-20-2009 - 9:00pm

Depending on your partner and the length of your finger, his prostate may be at the limit your finger will reach. To find it, you can start by inserting your finger about half way and pressing the pad of the finger tip against the anterior wall.

Move your fingertip from side to side while pressing and you should find a mass that you can feel and may be just a little wider than your finger. Depending on his state of arousal, it may be fairly soft or it may be firm but you should be able to feel the rounded form if it.

If you don't find it, gradually go deeper while sweeping your finger side to side and feeling for any sort of pliable rounded structure. If you reach the limit of your finger without finding it, relax the pressure for a moment and get your finger as deep as you can within his comfort zone. Reapply the pressure and work outward just like you worked inward while sweeping the finger from side to side.

Feedback from your guy would help a great deal if you can get him to. He should be able to feel a "wow" sensation possibly like he suddenly needs to urinate when you put pressure on the prostate. If you are giving him oral sex during your search, you may feel his penis jump or twitch strongly when your finger presses over his prostate.

Good hunting.

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In reply to: indiancouple
Sun, 09-20-2009 - 11:24pm
Just when I thought there was nothing else to learn!!
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Registered: 05-04-2008
In reply to: indiancouple
Mon, 09-21-2009 - 12:08am

I have to agree with you, many do like it.


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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: indiancouple
Fri, 09-25-2009 - 12:43pm

goddessnikkiblue


i am with you that one just needs to let go without prejudice and enjoy the experience for what it is.